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31 M Philadelphia, PA

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
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Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Not too long ago, I had a very clear picture of what my life was going to be like, and everything lined up on paper to make that happen. I was the kind of person who felt comfortable believing that there was a plan and I was following. And then the economy crashed and I was just another person with an advanced degree and nowhere to use it.

It was disorienting and terrifying and in some ways really, really liberating. I'm doing fine at a new job, I'm taking a shot on an improv class, and I'm happier than I've ever been. And I don't know what the hell the plan is.
What I’m doing with my life
I work at an employment screening company.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at over-thinking things. I'm really good at remembering lines from The Simpsons and The Princess Bride. I'm really good at listening to people, and accepting them. I'm really good at grilled cheese, I was told once, but it seems to me that nobody can screw up grilled cheese. I'm really good at dirty jokes, and in fact sometimes a little too good for the folks around me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I had no idea how to answer this question. So I asked around, and discovered that apparently I have a "regal bearing." So if you're looking for somebody to run a small medieval kingdom, remitting taxes and making war on rebel lords and things like that, I apparently look a lot like the guy that you'd want to do that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies - I like a mixture of older movies and newer movies. The two movies that really got me into film as a teenager are Notorious, the Hitchcock movie with Ingrid Bergman and Cary Grant; and Magnolia, the Paul Thomas Anderson movie where the frogs fall out of the sky. I'm also a big fan of Rachel Getting Married, Sweet Smell of Success and Only Angels Have Wings.

Books - When I was a kid I was big into epic fantasy, and I still sometimes re-read the Song of Ice and Fire series. These days, those, my tastes run more to history (I'm reading The Fall of the House of Dixie by Bruce Levine, which is this great social history of the Confederacy) with the occasional novel (The Flamethrowers by Rachel Kushner was amazing and digressive and thematically rich and just beautiful much of the time).

Music - Hard to pick one favorite, since a lot of what I'm interested in is contingent on mood. Bon Iver is great for a nice quiet winter evening; Phoenix, Los Campesinos! and Ted Leo are all great for when the roommate's out and I want to dance around the apartment; I've been a big Springsteen fan since I was a kid; and so forth.

Television - Mad Men, without a doubt, is my favorite show, and I love it like no other. I really dug Rectify, which came out this year; I'll miss Breaking Bad; and of course I'm obsessed with Orange is the New Black.
The six things I could never do without
A book in my hand; access to the Internet (seriously, how did we live?); my friends; a project to work on; my nieces and nephew; DVR'd episodes of Mythbusters.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to survive in case of accidental time travel; new, delicious things to put on rice; whether I remembered to take out the trash; why Amazon thinks I'll enjoy George W. Bush's memoirs, which obviously I would not.
On a typical Friday night I am
Grumbling about the annoying college kids who crowd onto the train back into Philly. Get off my lawn!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was raised in a very religious home, and I do not have settled feelings about religion by any means.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating