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24 • San Diego, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Aug 9, 2014
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Not at all
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Libra, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on university
- Seeing Someone
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I'm pretty much looking for internet/game friends at this point.
I can be your 'sometimes' friend, don't expect me to be free to go out and do stuff every week. Most of my time is occupied, but going to a snack bar and chatting might be fun sometimes. Apart from all that, I'll mostly just be reachable via technology.
If I haven't been on in a while, send me a message anyway, I'll get an alert on my phone.
I can definitely say I am no good at writing these, considering this is the first time I've ever done something like this. Until I have a little more experience on these dating websites, my bios will probably be a little unorganized and messy. I'm really terrible when it comes to writing about myself, I am better when spoken to or chatted with.
I'm used to spending the majority of my time indoors, either at my place or with a friend at theirs.
If you're a PC gamer and use Steam, send me a message, maybe we can have some fun!
I want to know if I can get along with someone before I start sharing pictures and more, so try sending a message, see if we're friend material or more~
You must be able to agree that the following is both awesome and a great way to spend a night....
Chillin' on the couch with Chinese food and my laptop hooked up to the big screen, playin' games all night long.
Some Extra Stuff!~
I am a little defensive and cautious when it comes to opening up to people. I realize that I may on occasion come off as unkind or mean, but honestly I'm just shy and I take some time to open up to people sometimes. If I come to you and open up right away, it's probably because your profile has made you seem pretty open minded, and I really respect that. I've been told I'm really good about accepting new friendships, I just sometimes struggle with starting them myself.
For the record though, I'm highly well mannered (despite my personality tab. Seriously don't understand how it came up with that), I admire open minds, and I love people willing to accept me for who I am.
Things I am learning
I've also started to discover that I am polyamorous. I am capable of falling in love and being intimate with many people. So yeah, this is kind of really important to me.
I can see myself spending a great deal of time cuddling and being close. I adore affection and absolutely love to be held. Though getting to that point of me being comfortable enough will take -time-.
I don't usually show a ton of emotion, but I'm extremely emotional. It's easy to make me happy, though I tend to show my happiness more in body language and physically than with a smile or words.
I like Silent Hill, Doomsday, Equilibrium, and so on.
Anything exciting or funny.
Techno, alternative, glitch hop, breakbeat, and so on.
I love sushi, but I'll eat almost anything. I'm talking about normal, people food, not intestines and other organs.
Rap, country, gospel, and reggae all make me itch.
I've never really been to clubs or bars. I can't picture myself having fun in places like that. So if you are looking for people to take clubbing or partying, you probably won't find that with me.
-You can stand that fact that if you want me to go out somewhere with you, I will strongly prefer to go out during the evening. I don't like bright, glaring sunlight or crowds. No, I'm not a vampire. Deal with it.
-You like lap cats. No, I don't have a cat, but I love to lean and lay against people.
-You're STD free, lying about this is a serious deal breaker. Please be honest about this.
-You want someone who is likely quieter than you, agreeable, and can usually learn to like the same kinds of things you do.
-You want someone who is open to talking about trying unconventional relationships.
-You want someone who is adventurous and willing to try almost anything....yes anything.....maybe
-You want a friend. Yes, I too want friends, this is not just for relationships....I'd like to have someone I can talk to and hang out with sometimes.
-If hanging out with friends at home is better than going out to bars/clubs.
-If you are willing to trade your flat/straight hair for my wavy hair.
I'm very eager to learn about love and relationships, if we get along I will work as hard as I can to keep things going well.
The worst that can happen is we turn out to be good friends.
As for match compatibility percentages? I'm not one of those people who won't talk to someone with less than 75% match. People claim it's a perfect or near perfect system, but really it's not.
For example, I myself? I answer questions even though I'm unsure of most of them, or I take a stab at the question, -but- I explain the answer in the description box...since, well, most of the time what I'd say as an answer is not one of the options. Pay more attention to the descriptions than the answers. I -will- talk to you even if okcupid's staff robot thing thinks we won't get along.
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