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36 M Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:23pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a curious type. Knowledge seeker. I believe in approaching the world from a place of lack. I'm an idealist. Critical of assumptions always. A student of life. An ally who knows how to listen.

I self-identify as a straight male but I don't really consider myself normative.

Not terribly interested in pre-existing social structures but not willing to simply abandon ship.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm finishing up an undergraduate degree in English with a minor in Philosophy. This summer I'll be studying to take the Literature in English GRE subject test. Slinging coffee in the meantime. Living with my partner, menunu .

Mostly, I'm trying to be a better person and I'm trying to help you be one too.
I’m really good at
Listening. Considering alternatives. Thinking outside of the box. Thinking logically. Close-reading. Interpreting literature. Informal dancing. Scrabble.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am always smiling.

Maybe that I look a lot younger than I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Thai, Indian, Japanese, Mexican, Italian, Pizza. I like food that tastes good.

I like Motown, Nina Simone, Elliot Smith, Jeff Buckley. I listened to a lot of Indie Rock in high school. I listened to Sunny Day Real Estate, Jawbox, Burning Airlines, and the like. I like Morrissey, Siouxie and the Banshees, The Cure, New Order and similar artists. I'm forgetting stuff. I love Robyn.

Yes, I like movies. McCabe and Mrs. Miller is probably my favorite movie ever.

I've had this goal to get through all the books on but I'm always reading for school.

I read all the books in the ASOIAF series.

I dig graphic novels too. Planetary, Identity Crisis. I'm only following one comic book and that's Saga.
The six things I could never do without
As a Communitarian, I'd have to say other people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Socialization. Education. Racism. Sexism. Heterosexism. Gender Normativity. Society. Politics. Literature. Mythos. Double-Consciousness. Existence & Being. Systems of Oppression. Humanity. Why I'm not vegan. Futurism. Ethics. Morality. The dark side of individualism. My future. Our future. Video games.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sleeping. I work early on Saturday mornings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
As much as I know, there's more that I don't know.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You are interested in sharing ideas. You want to talk about nerdy stuff like video games or comic books or literature or art or poetry or philosophy or politics.

I'm in a non-traditional partnership. We're monogamous by choice, but not by principle.

I'm more interested in just meeting people with similar interests to hang with but I wouldn't rule out other possibilities down the line.