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30 London, UK Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–32
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  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
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I'm very open and honest about who I am and I'm sure friends and family would say I'm opinionated, but I'd like to think they'd mean it in the sense of I have very clear views about things rather than me thinking I'm infallible which would clearly be bollocks.

I'm direct and say what I mean but that doesn't mean I'm rude - I like a bit of banter and that only works if you can both poke a bit of fun at each other; if it's one sided then that is mean.

I love tea and snuggles (though not together; that would be a mess) and much prefer the company of close friends who you can have an interesting and provocative conversation with - clubs are not my thing; I really don't see the appeal, but each to their own.

I'm studying Countering Organised Crime and Terrorism part time, and loving every minute of it. I'm hoping to go on and do a PhD when I'm finished but time will tell and the cut in salary will be a shock I'm sure. I'm currently pretty well paid and the thought of my salary dropping by 85% doesn't fill me with joy - but then the thought of doing something I'm passionate about for the rest of my life does so swings and roundabouts I guess.

Also, I really hate having my photo taken, so a picture of me out somewhere is rare as I avoid cameras like vampires avoid sunlight, so apologies in advance for the terrible selfies.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying at UCL part time. Working with a great team of people in my day job. Baking cakes. So many cakes. (Just to clarify, that isn't the job, I just bake a lot of cakes)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Baking when I should be studying. Saying something I think is totally normal and then discovering it was totally inappropriate. I even got a "Totes Inappropes" award at work last year. It was a statue of a meerkat with the most ridiculous nipples.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My face. Because, you know, that's how they recognise me when they see me so I guess they notice that first.

I'm also told my pictures don't really show what I really look like (thankfully I'm told this is, "But in a good way") and that I look completely different when I'm wearing contact lenses or glasses. I could totally be Superman, right?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Philip K Dick, Tolkien, Pullman, Gladwell. To be honest most of these sorts of books are on hold as I trawl through academic papers for uni.

Movies: Anything by Chris Nolan (such a fanboy of his now). I prefer Sci-Fi and films that have something to say that makes you actually think about something in a new way. Horror and RomComs don't interest me in the slightest.

TV: Currently waiting for the new Game of Thrones season to start. Loving The Blacklist - James Spader became one of my favourite actors when I blitzed through Boston Legal. House of Cards is a show I can watch again and again so if you haven't seen it and want to let's do it!

Music: I'm mostly into classical music and instrumental soundtracks - Einaudi, Giacchino, Zimmer, Rachmaninoff, Saint-Saens, Gershwin, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tea (I drink it almost non-stop!)
Snuggles (The non-tea-drinking time. Good during films.)
Board games. Sad as it may sound I've really got into these in the last couple of years. I don't mean Monopoly or Scrabble but if you know Puerto Rico, Galaxy Trucker, Love Letter, Coup, Smallworld... well we will get on.
A challenge - preferably a mental one; I'm not proficient at scaling physical mountains.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What am I doing? Is it worthwhile? How can I make the world a better place? No, seriously, I could be doing more right? There's nothing worse than coming out of a Batman film and thinking, "Why aren't I helping people more?"
A lot of random crap like that goes through my head. It's not all that serious though. Sometimes it's just, "Should I make a lemon and white chocolate cheesecake on Sunday or Tuesday? Who will be in the office Monday/Wedneday?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home watching a film or something. Sometimes with a friend, sometimes on my own. I'm quite comfortable being by myself and certainly prefer the company of a few good friends than a plethora of drunk nutters. Quality over quantity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not saying I am Batman, but have you ever seen both of us together? Exactly.
You should message me if
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You're interested in meeting up. If you're miles and miles away or just want to chat online, then I wouldn't waste our time. There are loads of places to chat; this site is for meeting people.