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30 • London, UK • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–34
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 25
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Not at all
- Graduated from masters program
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
I love tea and snuggles (though not together; that would be a mess) and the company of close friends who you can have an interesting and thought-provoking conversation with. Trying to get a bit more exercise but BedGravity gets the better of me most mornings.
I'm also honest. I'm looking for interesting people to make friends with and attractive people to have sex with; a real bonus if someone can be both - I'd rather that than one-off hook-ups, though I'm not opposed to them.
Having read a few other profiles I realised I left out something that's a pretty massive part of my time - board games! I have far too many, but just can't seem to stop buying them. Anyone up for helping me play more is more than welcome to message me.
Also, I really hate having my photo taken, so a picture of me out somewhere is rare as I avoid cameras like vampires avoid sunlight, so apologies in advance for the terrible selfies.
I'm also told my pictures don't really show what I really look like (thankfully I'm told this is, "But in a good way") and that I look completely different when I'm wearing contact lenses or glasses. I could totally be Superman, right?
Movies: Anything by Chris Nolan (such a fanboy of his now). I prefer Sci-Fi and films that have something to say that makes you actually think about something in a new way. Horror and RomComs don't interest me in the slightest.
TV: X Files - season 6 and counting. Currently waiting for the new Game of Thrones season to start. Loving The Blacklist - James Spader became one of my favourite actors when I blitzed through Boston Legal. House of Cards is a show I can watch again and again so if you haven't seen it and want to let's do it!
Music: I'm mostly into classical music and instrumental soundtracks - Einaudi, Giacchino, Zimmer, Rachmaninoff, Saint-Saens, Gershwin, etc.
Snuggles (The non-tea-drinking time. Good during films.)
Board games. Sad as it may sound I've really got into these in the last couple of years. I don't mean Monopoly or Scrabble but if you know Puerto Rico, Galaxy Trucker, Love Letter, Coup, Smallworld... well we will get on.
A challenge - preferably a mental one; I'm not proficient at scaling physical mountains.
A lot of random crap like that goes through my head. It's not all that serious though. Sometimes it's just, "Should I make a lemon and white chocolate cheesecake on Sunday or Tuesday? Who will be in the office Monday/Wedneday?"
1. I have HIV. (My partner does not.) This really isn't an issue; we're not living in the 80s and it causes me no problems at all. Hayfever is worse.
2. I have one rather large piercing. You won't see it in the publicly available pictures on here.
3. I'm interested in people across the gender spectrum. I really can't comprehend why this is seen as taboo by so many people. Society is weird.
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