I'm direct and say what I mean but that doesn't mean I'm rude - I like a bit of banter and that only works if you can both poke a bit of fun at each other; if it's one sided then that is mean.
I love tea and snuggles (though not together; that would be a mess) and much prefer the company of close friends who you can have an interesting and provocative conversation with - clubs are not my thing; I really don't see the appeal, but each to their own.
I'm studying Countering Organised Crime and Terrorism part time, and loving every minute of it. I'm hoping to go on and do a PhD when I'm finished but time will tell and the cut in salary will be a shock I'm sure. I'm currently pretty well paid and the thought of my salary dropping by 85% doesn't fill me with joy - but then the thought of doing something I'm passionate about for the rest of my life does so swings and roundabouts I guess.
Also, I really hate having my photo taken, so a picture of me out somewhere is rare as I avoid cameras like vampires avoid sunlight, so apologies in advance for the terrible selfies.