Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a PhD student at UCL studying Crime Science. Hoping to save the
world without the need from a latex Supersuit.
I love tea and snuggles (though not together; that would be a mess)
and the company of close friends who you can have an interesting
and thought-provoking conversation with. Trying to get a bit more
exercise but BedGravity gets the better of me most mornings. I do
try to cycle into uni now and then though.
Having read a few other profiles I realised I left out something
that's a pretty massive part of my time - board games! I have far
too many, but just can't seem to stop buying them. Anyone up for
helping me play more is more than welcome to message me. As OKC
doesn't like me putting up a picture of my collection just ask if
you're interested - I'm not talking about Scrabble or Monopoly
Also, I really hate having my photo taken, so a picture of me out
somewhere is rare as I avoid cameras like vampires avoid sunlight,
so apologies in advance for the terrible selfies.
I've got a boyfriend, we have a very open relationship, and I'm up
for making friends with or without benefits. We're not as yet
looking to turn it into a serious relationship of more than two
people though; to be honest it hasn't ever come up, but I'm always
up for meeting interesting people and you never know what the
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying at UCL by day. Studying at home by night (or playing
computer games. Mainly this to be honest.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Spending the time to read someone's profile before I message them
but never even getting a "no thanks" in return. I really do wonder
why I bother coming on here at all sometimes, but I suppose I have
met a couple of nice people on here. There must be more, right?
The first things people usually notice about me
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My face. Because, you know, that's how they recognise me when they
see me so I guess they notice that first.
I'm also told my pictures don't really show what I really look like
(thankfully I'm told this is, "But in a good way") and that I look
completely different when I'm wearing contact lenses or glasses. I
could totally be Superman, right?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Philip K Dick, Tolkien, Pullman, Gladwell. To be
honest most of these sorts of books are on hold as I trawl through
academic papers for uni.
Movies: Cloud Atlas brings me close to tears every time I watch it
but I haven't opened the floodgates just yet. Anything by Chris
Nolan (such a fanboy of his now). I prefer Sci-Fi and films that
have something to say that makes you actually think about something
in a new way. Horror and RomComs don't interest me in the
TV: X Files - up to season 7 and counting. Game of Thrones, The
Blacklist - James Spader became one of my favourite actors when I
blitzed through Boston Legal. House of Cards is a show I can watch
again and again (until season 3. What the hell happened?!) so if
you haven't seen it and want to let's do it! I'm also about half
way through The West Wing; my boyfriend hadn't seen it before so
he's being well educated.
Music: I'm mostly into classical music and instrumental soundtracks
- Einaudi, Giacchino, Zimmer, Rachmaninoff, Saint-Saens, Gershwin,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tea (I drink it almost non-stop!)
Snuggles (The non-tea-drinking time. Good during films.)
Board games. Sad as it may sound to some I've really got into these
in the last couple of years. I don't mean Monopoly or Scrabble but
if you know TRAINS!, Puerto Rico, Galaxy Trucker, Love Letter,
Coup, Smallworld, PowerGrid, Village, Through the Ages, Last Will,
Clash of Cultures, Archipelago... well we will get on. I've been to
Essen Spiel the last two years and spent far too much money. Is
there a rehab for board game addicts?
A challenge - preferably a mental one; I'm not proficient at
scaling physical mountains.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What am I doing? Is it worthwhile? How can I make the world a
better place? No, seriously, I could be doing more right? There's
nothing worse than coming out of a Batman film and thinking, "Why
aren't I helping people more?" but then I remember that I am trying
to do good and although it might not be much I'm constantly
reminded of this scene from Cloud Atlas:
Haskell Moore: No matter what you do it will never amount to
anything more than a single drop in a limitless ocean.
Adam Ewing: What is an ocean but a multitude of drops?
A lot of random crap like that goes through my head. It's not all
that serious though. Sometimes it's just, "Do I want Jaffa Cakes or
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home watching a film. I prefer the company of a few good friends
over a nice meal than a plethora of drunk nutters. I've got nothing
against people who want to go out and drink a couple of nights a
week, but it's just not for me. To each their own; it would be a
boring world if we were all the same.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty open about everything so there's not much to put here,
so I'll go with things other people might not be so keen to
1. I have HIV (my partner does not) and I'm on meds and have an
undetectable viral load. For those that don't know what that means
(and I've no reason to expect you do unless you're a gay guy) it
basically means I can't pass it on. This really isn't an issue;
we're not living in the 80s and it causes me no problems at all.
Hayfever is worse.
2. I have one rather large piercing. You won't see it in the
publicly available pictures on here.
3. I'm interested in and attracted to people across the gender
spectrum. I really can't comprehend why this is seen as taboo by so
many people. Society is weird.
You should message me if
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