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Do you remember when we were younger? I just think dating should totally go back to being like it used to be.
I was in the eighth grade and I remember feeling elated, because the cool guy gave me a second glance. We were together in our neighborhood with other friends all the time, but never in a million years did I think he would ever give me a second glance. I remember playing flashlight tag one night. My girlfriends said he was interested in me, and at the same time, he tagged me and pulled me behind the trees to see if I was interested too. My stomach did flip flops and I was unable to utter a single intelligible sentence. I ran like an idiot. To this day, when I chat with him I still get a flurrying sensation in my stomach.
That's what dating needs to be. That insatiable feeling in the stomach. Playing tag. Playing flashlight games with each other.
Talking on the phone for hours at a time and just watching TV together. I remember those days. Those are the days that we really need to go back to when it comes down to dating.
Having fun. That's what life's all about. We could sit here and we could tell each other what we do for a living. I'm an IT project manager with a Fortune 100 company. Great, got that out of the way.
But wouldn't it be better to have that feeling again, that feeling like we used to have, when we had our very first crush?
That's what I'm looking for again. I'm looking for a crush. I'm looking for somebody that wants to enjoy the beautiful New England lifestyle. Gardening, bike riding, going to the beach, hiking, winter snowshoeing, all the fun stuff. And I want you to feel the same way.
You got to have an outgoing personality. You want to be that cool guy that I had a crush on in the eight grade. Someone that makes me laugh, or we can both laugh together. I like someone who can challenge me intellectually. I want someone that takes care of themselves the way I take care of myself. I want you just to be my equal. I want you to be my equal crush with butterflies in the stomach, my equal in all ways.
I think as we get older we really just look for that other version of ourselves. I'm looking for somebody who wants to travel back in time, hold hands, have a crush on each other, and have that butterfly feeling in the stomach all over again. Hopefully that's you!