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45 Tucson, AZ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:18am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I enjoy exploring life- in myself in meditation, in nature and hanging out with thoughtful, creative folks. I have an open mind and heart and love it when there's a mutual connection that feels interesting and energizing-be it for friendship or more.
Compassion is an ongoing theme in my life(Buddhism has been part of my path in the past) both for my own imperfections and bringing it into the day to day. I'm very conscious of karma!
I am continuously exploring (and being in awe of) the mind/body/heart connection primarily thru Qigong, meditation (mostly Taoist), yoga (mostly yin), feldenkrais/somatics and Sufi chanting. (yes I realize some of this may sound like a foreign language!)
The kid in me loves playing games (Settlers, Scrabble, Balderdash, cahds (Boston accent) etc. with friends and family.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been on a pretty conscious journey for a while and am interested in self-growth and helping others in health and healing. I teach Qigong (energy development exercises) and have been connected to the wellness fields as a teacher and administrator. Health is good!
I spend a lot of time out in nature, communing, learning, and finding deeper stillness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
telling Bad jokes
finding joy in the natural world
watching movies
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall and thin with a nice smile
I have a silly sense of humor
I'm very at ease with myself and those around me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Rumi's poetry, Hazrat Inayat-Khan, Michael Pollan, Sherlock Holmes, Lord of the Rings, Shawshank Redemption, John Cusack movies, Coen Bros, Margin Call, When Harry Met Sally, The Secret in their Eyes, Inside Man, Game of Thrones, Downton Abbey (just a little different energy from G.O.T.),Jack Johnson, Peter Gabriel, Natalie Merchant (old school), Sarah McLachlan, Neil Young, Pet Shop Boys (don't laugh), Steel Pulse, folk, Chris Smither
healthy/organic food whenever possible without being to anal about it-anything with avocados-guacamole, cuke/avo salad. Salmon cooked jussssttt right.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being in nature
Staying connected with my friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's next on my journey....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
chillin' with friends, chanting, seeing a movie...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've (not so) secretly cried at chick flicks....
You should message me if
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You are open to exploring and growing, like to have fun being in the moment, and appreciate cheesy jokes