Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was born in Shelton and raised in Olympia. As a teen I dreamed
about getting out of Oly. But when I left it only took about 6
months to appreciate just how much this part of the country has to
offer. I've lived a few places on the west coast and traveled in
Asia and Latin America. When my son was born I was ecstatic to move
back “home” to raise him.
Most things in my life are going great; I have a stable career
doing something I love, my third grade son is an absolute joy, and
my home is a dream though it keeps me busy with plenty of projects.
One thing missing is a loving relationship.
I'm two years out from of a seventeen year relationship and feel
open to a joyous vibrant future. I am looking for a deep and
passionate long term partnership.
A friend had me take a personality test that tagged me as an INFJ,
though I was borderline with INTJ. So, according to that line of
thinking I'd match up well with ENTP, ENFP, INFJ, INFP, or ENFJ.
Having been in mismatched relationships, I wouldn't mind trying out
a healthy match... just saying.
I'd like to meet for coffee, tea, or a casual lunch, to see if we
have chemistry. If we do then lets find something fun to do for a
What I’m doing with my life
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My deepest desire is to be a father and a partner in a healthy,
happy family (cliche?). I'm also part of a really cool local
business that is just getting rolling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at being clear in my thoughts and feelings, even when
uncertain. I would like to think that I'm good at communicating
too, though there is always room to grow.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Uh, I'm tall. If they talk to me they notice I'm well spoken,
insightful, and considerate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: I'm totally addicted to Pandora. I love how it introduces me
to new music. Currently my station plays; Cake, Black Keys, Noah
and the Whale, Regina Spektor, Natalie McAllister, Korpiklanni,
Movies and TV: I prefer dramas, especially historical ones. Apart
from that it depends more on the quality of the film than the
genera. Of course these days I mostly watch kids movies.
Books: I usually have a novel I'm working on, though it can take me
a month or two to finish it. My favorite genera is historical
fiction (the past is prologue), but I mix it up too. I love
browsing the library stacks and finding an unexpected gem.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, my mind, my heart, freedom, integrity and adventure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Tomorrow (figuratively). What it means to be a good person and a
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting home from work late and putting my son to bed, then
reheating leftovers for my dinner, watching a show on hulu, reading
a chapter in a novel, and going to sleep. Now Saturday...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Doesn't that defeat the purpose of privacy.
You should message me if
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