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42 Olympia, WA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 37-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I was born in Shelton and raised in Olympia. As a teen I dreamed about getting out of Oly. But when I left it only took about 6 months to appreciate just how much this part of the country has to offer. I've lived a few places on the west coast and traveled in Asia and Latin America. When my son was born I was ecstatic to move back “home” to raise him.

Most things in my life are going great; I have a stable career doing something I love, my third grade son is an absolute joy, and my home is a dream though it keeps me busy with plenty of projects. One thing missing is a loving relationship.

I'm two years out from of a seventeen year relationship and feel open to a joyous vibrant future. I am looking for a deep and passionate long term partnership.

A friend had me take a personality test that tagged me as an INFJ, though I was borderline with INTJ. So, according to that line of thinking I'd match up well with ENTP, ENFP, INFJ, INFP, or ENFJ. Having been in mismatched relationships, I wouldn't mind trying out a healthy match... just saying.

I'd like to meet for coffee, tea, or a casual lunch, to see if we have chemistry. If we do then lets find something fun to do for a real date.
What I’m doing with my life
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My deepest desire is to be a father and a partner in a healthy, happy family (cliche?). I'm also part of a really cool local business that is just getting rolling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at being clear in my thoughts and feelings, even when uncertain. I would like to think that I'm good at communicating too, though there is always room to grow.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Uh, I'm tall. If they talk to me they notice I'm well spoken, insightful, and considerate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: I'm totally addicted to Pandora. I love how it introduces me to new music. Currently my station plays; Cake, Black Keys, Noah and the Whale, Regina Spektor, Natalie McAllister, Korpiklanni, etc.

Movies and TV: I prefer dramas, especially historical ones. Apart from that it depends more on the quality of the film than the genera. Of course these days I mostly watch kids movies.

Books: I usually have a novel I'm working on, though it can take me a month or two to finish it. My favorite genera is historical fiction (the past is prologue), but I mix it up too. I love browsing the library stacks and finding an unexpected gem.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, my mind, my heart, freedom, integrity and adventure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Tomorrow (figuratively). What it means to be a good person and a good father.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting home from work late and putting my son to bed, then reheating leftovers for my dinner, watching a show on hulu, reading a chapter in a novel, and going to sleep. Now Saturday...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Doesn't that defeat the purpose of privacy.
You should message me if
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your interested in getting to know me.