33 St. Catharines, Ontario, CA
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My self-summary
I am a geek, atheist, feminist, left leaning open minded type. If you tend to use the term SJW as a negative I would probably fall into that category :P I like discussing things and can get passionate about a whole range of topics.

I have heard a lot about "opposites attract" but I have come to determine that it is not really a good idea when it comes to dating, so I'd like to find someone with similar values and interests as myself.

Heteroflexible is now an option! If you are curious as to what heteroflexible means toss me a message :) But another way to describe it is I am hetero-romantic but pansexual. Sexuality is such a confusing thing heh

I have twin boys with an ex that I go to see every weekend, and my ex and I are on very good terms. My boys live with her and I don't take them on weekends or anything like that, but when needed I do go over and look after them, to allow my ex some relaxation. Which is highly understandable because they are crazy little monsters :P

I play video games, make Youtube videos, watch a lot of Youtube, watch anime, etc. However I like to think that I am not socially awkward and I don't require geekiness to be part of every moment of the day.

I am very open minded about pretty much anything, and have seen probably 99% of all there is to see on the internet. About 90% of which I wish I hadn't :P The internet is an awesome yet scary rage inducing place.
What I’m doing with my life
Working in customer service from home. Telecommuting is pretty great :)
I’m really good at
Trying to think of things logically I suppose. I generally analyse anything or any situation through logic, though with the big things I tend to let my emotion take precedence.

I used to be really good at cooking but somewhere along the line I lost my touch. I am hoping to get back into the swing of things and experimenting with different flavour combinations to create things that are unique and tasty.

I am an excellent listener, and great at answering direct/specific questions about myself without hesitation. However saying "So tell me about yourself" to me makes me draw a huge blank and I don't even know where to begin.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I look just like someone they know. Seriously I get that wherever I go. I guess I just have one of those faces. Other than that they would notice I'm a fatty with glasses and facial hair

Personality wise they would notice that I am not very out spoken or talkative until I get to know someone. This is generally because I like to know what is and isn't OK to say around someone. I don't like offending people or causing a confrontation, so I like to know my boundaries before jumping in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love RA Salvatore's books. If you don't know who he is, he is a fantasy writer that bases much of his books in the D&D world (seeee, geek).

Ok, I'll list the genre's I enjoy.
Metal(Industrial, Heavy, Power, Death, Black, Nu)
Electronic(House, Aggrotech, Trip-Hop, Dubstep)
Retro(New Wave, 80's Alternative, Classic Rock)
Guilty Pleasure, Insane Clown Posse and Psychopathic Records

Anything that is Medieval/Fantasy war based like Lord of the Rings or Gladiator and Braveheart
Comedies, and good ones, not the spoof ones like Meet the Spartans or Not Another Teen Movie
Starwars is good, except Episode 1 and 2
I also like weird ones like Dark City and Memento, and Tarantino movies

Seafood except for Oysters/Mussels/Raw Clams
Indian Food (Butter Chicken, Tikki Masala)
North American Chinese
Mexican (not taco bell Mexican, which is decent mind you)
Mediterranean or Middle Eastern (Gyros, Falafel)
German/Ukrainian/Polish/other Eastern European
The six things I could never do without
A car
Private Space/Time
Caring people around me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Besides what is going on in my life at the time, social issues and the like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working usually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I suck at giving "thoughtful" gifts, if by thoughtful you mean jewelry or flowers etc. I just never really think about doing it and using that as an expression of appreciation or love. I do that verbally and physically, and just don't think about buying a material item to do so. I am much more one of those "ask me for it and I will get it for you" kind of people. And to be fair, that is what I expect from others. I don't expect gifts from anyone. They are appreciated though.

Just because I looked at your profile and didn't message you doesn't mean I am not interested. I am just chicken shit sometimes when it comes to opening communication. I am trying to fix that.
You should message me if
If you read my profile and are interested in the slightest.

You want to play some Magic the Gathering, or Settlers of Catan, or Munchkin, or other awesome geeky table top like game.

You want to talk geeky about games, the internet, Youtube, or movies.

You want to talk about things that most people consider taboo to bring up at first meetings/messaging like Religion, Politics, Sex.