Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


32 Hamilton, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:54pm
Heteroflexible, Pansexual
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a geek, atheist, feminist, left leaning open minded type. A skeptic as it were as well. I like discussing things and can get passionate about a whole range of topics. I have heard a lot about "opposites attract" but I am come to determine that it is not really a good idea when it comes to dating, so I'd like to find someone with similar values and interests as myself.

Not really bi, but heteroflexible wasn't an option. When it comes to dating I am only into women. If you are curious as to what heteroflexible means toss me a message :) But another way to describe it is I am hetero-romantic but pansexual. Sexuality is such a confusing thing heh

I have twin boys with an ex that I go to see every weekend, and my ex and I are on very good terms. My boys live with her and I don't take them on weekends or anything like that, but when needed I do go over and look after them, to allow my ex some relaxation. Which is highly understandable because they are crazy little monsters :P

I play video games, make Youtube videos, watch a lot of Youtube, watch anime, etc. However I like to think that I am not socially awkward and I don't require geekiness to be part of every moment of the day.

I am very open minded about pretty much anything, and have seen probably 99% of all there is to see on the internet. About 90% of which I wish I hadn't :P The internet is an awesome yet scary rage inducing place.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently thinking about what I should do. Recently lost my job due to outsourcing (Yay working for a big company that doesn't care about people, just money) but I have a good amount of time to determine where to go from here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trying to think of things logically I suppose. I generally analyse anything or any situation through logic, though with the big things I tend to let my emotion take precedence.

I used to be really good at cooking but somewhere along the line I lost my touch. I am hoping to get back into the swing of things and experimenting with different flavour combinations to create things that are unique and tasty.

I am an excellent listener, and great at answering direct/specific questions about myself without hesitation. However saying "So tell me about yourself" to me makes me draw a huge blank and I don't even know where to begin.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look just like someone they know. Seriously I get that wherever I go. I guess I just have one of those faces. Other than that they would notice I'm a fatty with glasses and facial hair

Personality wise they would notice that I am not very out spoken or talkative until I get to know someone. This is generally because I like to know what is and isn't OK to say around someone. I don't like offending people or causing a confrontation, so I like to know my boundaries before jumping in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love RA Salvatore's books. If you don't know who he is, he is a fantasy writer that bases much of his books in the D&D world (seeee, geek).

Ok, I'll list the genre's I enjoy.
Metal(Industrial, Heavy, Power, Death, Black, Nu)
Electronic(House, Aggrotech, Trip-Hop, Dubstep)
Retro(New Wave, 80's Alternative, Classic Rock)
Guilty Pleasure, Insane Clown Posse and Psychopathic Records

Anything that is Medieval/Fantasy war based like Lord of the Rings or Gladiator and Braveheart
Comedies, and good ones, not the spoof ones like Meet the Spartans or Not Another Teen Movie
Starwars is good, except Episode 1 and 2
I also like weird ones like Dark City and Memento, and Tarantino movies

Seafood except for Oysters/Mussels/Raw Clams
Indian Food (Butter Chicken, Tikki Masala)
North American Chinese
Mexican (not taco bell Mexican, which is decent mind you)
Mediterranean or Middle Eastern (Gyros, Falafel)
German/Ukrainian/Polish/other Eastern European
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A car
Private Space/Time
Caring people around me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The crap that I have put myself through and what it would be like to win the lottery/have a lot of money. Money may not buy happiness, but it sure as hell will remove all the stress I have and make it easier to be happier.

I also daydream a lot on my car rides to and from work, usually thinking about silly impossibilities.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not doing a whole heck of a lot unfortunately.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suck at giving "thoughtful" gifts, if by thoughtful you mean jewelry or flowers etc. I just never really think about doing it and using that as an expression of appreciation or love. I do that verbally and physically, and just don't think about buying a material item to do so. I am much more one of those "ask me for it and I will get it for you" kind of people. And to be fair, that is what I expect from others. I don't expect gifts from anyone. They are appreciated though.

Just because I looked at your profile and didn't message you doesn't mean I am not interested. I am just chicken shit sometimes when it comes to opening communication. I am trying to fix that.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you read my profile and are interested in the slightest.

If you will be going to FanExpo and want to meet up there or after.

You want to play some Magic the Gathering, or Settlers of Catan, or Munchkin, or other awesome geeky table top like game.

You are from Hamilton or the GTA and want a friend to walk/bike with.

You want to talk geeky about games, the internet, Youtube, or movies.

You want to talk about things that most people consider taboo to bring up at first meetings/messaging like Religion, Politics, Sex.