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49 Seattle, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35–85
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 3
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am grateful for every little thing.
Since moving back to Seattle I have been pursuing my singing and music again. I love baking, doing massage and learning new healing modalities that will help people along my journey. I love to begin each day with a prayer of gratitude and stretching before I get out of bed. Languishing in bed after some hot morning sex is nice too.
My hobbies would have to be, right now, singing, learning to write/read music/songs, and play piano. I'm also looking forward to going on my dream date of sushi on a sailboat on the sea at sunset.
I am a very sensually passionate person who enjoys sharing touch and intimacy in all facets of a deep and meaningful relationship. Holding hands while walking together is nice....

Dancing use to be one of the biggest joys to me until my hips started hurting from arthritis. I studied dance my whole life, and have enjoyed performance in the past. I still dance, just not for 4-5 hours at a time anymore. Now I'm singing my music out more than dancing.
I have a grown son who's the joy of my life but lives too far, and an 8 year old Pug who still lives with me. My Pug is permanent in my life, so if you don't like dogs I won't date you.

I want to be in love. I believe in love. I want a best friend and partner in love. I want to laugh with my love, sing with my love, dance with/for my love, cry with my love...take sunset beach strolls, and take long hot bubble baths with my love.... cook great food, drink yummy wine, make love divine... I want to share joy, share sorrow, share pain, share tomorrow with my love... Wake up with the sunrise to the lovin touch of my love....

I have tried the polyamory thing. I'm not being fulfilled by it. I feel more confused emotionally, and feel more alone and empty than I did before. Maybe it's just that I tried it with someone who can't share their emotions verbally? I am open to learning more, but it will take time to gain my trust. The more communication, the more trust. I do believe there are people out there that know how to, and WANT to help make someone feel connected, safe, and WANTED emotionally, physically and mentally in a relationship. Want to turn me on? Be GENUINELY interested in me as a person first. I know I have great tits, and cute dimples. I would try to do me too, if I met me in a coffee shop and we made eye contact and if I got a smile. Still, guys, we do really want to be liked before we're "loved"...most of us anyway. I absolutely guarantee it! hahaha! And try not to use pretty words unless you mean it. I don't like to hear insincerity in a compliment, or passionate words used in passionate encounter.

Ok...enough about me. If you want to know more, just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am in a transitional period of my life. Meaning I am flexible and available in a way I never have been before. I am unemployed, unattached and can go anywhere my true love is.

Besides the obvious, being here and looking for my love, lover, partner, friend, best mate, confidant, challenger, soul mate. I am learning to love being alone. I don't necessarily like it, and I certainly am ready to NOT be alone. I'm hoping to find someone to take sunset walks with along Alki Beach in West Seattle, where I live, with my Pug, Prissy.

I just found out because I don't have insurance and I have been having the worst time getting a job because of the chronic pain in my hips and legs, I am going to either have to wait up to 5 years for hip replacement surgery, or hope a miracle comes along. I personally hope the miracle comes along, like an employer understands that I WANT to work and gives me a great job with benefits so I can get some relief and help. I don't want to think that with my over 20 years of being in the healthcare and helping career field, that now I just have to wait in pain for any help for myself. Sooooo, I'm staying positive as I can with chronic degenerative joint disease, and hope I get help, get married to someone with great insurance, or some other help. This is life. I hope I can still find love even though I feel a bit broken. I know I'm well worth loving, and I can still work hard in a loving relationship. It's just this pain I'm having to deal with that I didn't ask for. Yet, I will not let it cramp my love life. So bring it!
I’m really good at
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Baking, dancing, massage, survival, and helping people. Control and surrender; getting people to feel comfortable with the gift of healing touch; being a friend, being loyal, honest and loving. I'm also good at communicating and expressing my feelings; listening to other people's feelings; and talking about uncomfortable things comfortably.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My cute dimples! Or my unique hair color/style. I'm not other people, and I don't usually ask what they notice about me first, so I can only go with what I see, and those are the first things I notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love reading anything from Music Composition, Learning to Play Piano, Bass or Singing books; to fiction like Laurell K. Hamilton, Dean Koontz, Stephen Kings Dark Tower Series; all kinds of metaphysical and spiritual books, cookbooks; books on sailing, living aboard sailboats; books on how to best take care of my Pug, and poetry. I don't watch a lot of TV because I'd rather play music, dance or go to a music show. When I watch TV it's usually John Stewart and The Corbert Report, a movie with LOTS of explosions, scary events, comedy or thriller, or the music channels. I love reggae, jazz, blues, bluegrass, some country from the dust bowl era to about the 1970's. I also love funk, soul, hiphop, and some rap. I sing a lot of jazz and some blues/rock. Love and music are my religion.
*As far as food and drink go, I LOVE SUSHI!, Indian food, Asian food of all kinds, GOOD Mexican, Italian, Greek, trying New cheeses and just all around GOOD food lover. I appreciate a good Porter or Stout beer, and a nice juicy glass of Red Wine very much. I also love a good whiskey and brandy. Being back in Seattle for almost three years, I've gained an appreciation for cocktails and happy hour as well. Watch your girlfriends if I'm drinkin tequila...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Loving sensuality, healing touch, creative expression, Prissy the Love Pug (I could live without her when she dies, but I'll miss her!), music and air.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm gonna get my sailboat. Whether or not there is actually someone special out there for me. Why people emotionally manipulate someone for their own pleasure even when they know it hurts the other person. Why another human can watch someone they say they care about suffer, yet help and reach out to humans who are disrespectful to that person who is suffering. If there will ever be world peace. The next time I get to have Sushi, go sailing, dance, sing, laugh, cry, feel...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for the next opportunity to get on a sailboat, go dancing, play music with friends or just chill.... There is, never has been and never will be a typical anything for me.... I have accepted that and am over it already...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a reincarnation of myself.
You should message me if
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You want to take me out for Sushi and Dirty Gin Martinis. You think we could have some fun together, and be friends first. You want to teach or learn with me how to make Sushi, be a better Sailor, Salsa dance, make me laugh (I could use a good laugh), give me a massage (strictly therapeutic), or you want a massage from me. You should message me if you would like to get together and play music, write songs together and encourage creative expression.

Also, if you rated me highly, message me because I am not going to upgrade my account so I can contact you. I am here to look for love, so if you are too, maybe taking a chance on messaging me would be a good thing.