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59 Mill Valley, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 28, 2014
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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My man fast is coming to an end...selectively gearing up for another round here...EDITED 9/28 ~

I have spent my whole life committed to my health and personal growth and I'm amazingly well preserved. I am interested in someone who is likewise very conscious and committed to their personal and spiritual evolution.

I’m completely happy on my own and am not looking for someone to complete me. However, I know that life is much more meaningful when it is shared.

I’m no cookie cutter. I have tried an unconventional approach to dating and discovered that OMing does NOT work for me. I am interested in being intimate with only one person. I want that intimacy to be inspired from the heart and not lusted from the crotch. Anyone can do that…

What I find to be a real turn on in a younger-than-me man: chivalry, innate intelligence, generosity, kindness, a hot body, sharp intuition, high energetic vibration, adventurous spirit, witty humor, class, high wealth frequency, and an open heart.

You are willing to be seen and have nothing to hide. You are completely available and have no loose ends in past relationships. You can laugh at yourself and see humor in life. You feel comfortable in your skin and have high self-confidence. You know how to be accountable for everything you create and life is not just happening to you. You live your life on purpose.

Me? I am all of the above and can laugh about it.

I believe that part of the purpose of a relationship is to mirror to each other those places that still want to grow and evolve. I'm looking for a relationship where there is mutual support to bring out more of the best in us. The best is yet to come…

My ultimate goal is to find a life partner where deep intimacy is natural and effortless......but until then.....I'm on a journey and will be enjoying myself. However, I am very selective so don't be offended if I do not respond.

Chemistry is everything......well, right behind attraction.

Best of luck to you here on OKC!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m a health and wellness entrepreneur, and have expanded into workshops, speaking, and working on a book.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the positive side of things.
Seeing you
Beating you at Scrabble
Skipping rocks
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My infectious smile…and my aura makes me seem taller…lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Power vs Force (Dr. David Hawkins), Healing with Angels (Doreen Virtue), Millionaire Mind (T. Harv Ecker), The Power of Now (Eckhart Tolle), Fit For Love (Billy Sunday Mars)

Movies: Avatar, Amélie, Buck, Thrive. Also Beowulf — I don’t usually like violent movies, but the digital effects won me over.

Shows: Nothing in particular… I’m not much of a TV-watcher.

Music: Mostly Pandora, sometimes radio, 103.9 KBLX and sometimes ALICE

Food: Borderline vegetarian. At home I’m a little more ascetic, but I indulge when I go out to dinner, and I love trying new restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
Family/Friends (is that 2?)
Outdoors/nature (is that 2?)
Alone time
Anything that makes me laugh (definitely more than 2)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything........I'm an air sign......we think alot, although I don't waste much time on worry.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Winding down from the week and catching up with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book for the most part....ask me anything.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. know how to be accountable for what you create and you're interested in knowing if we have some chemistry.

I'm less curious about what you have and what you do, although interesting, and more interested in who you are.

I tend to be attracted to younger men......they seem to be, in general, more fun, have more enthusiasm for life, are less bitter and hardened by their personal journey, and have more energy.

You aren’t committed to having a beard. (They can look great, but they don’t feel great from my end.)

You’re messaging people who truly interest you. I value others’ time and energy, and I only make plans if I sincerely think there might be a connection — I trust that you’re doing the same.