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45 Concord, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:11am
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I can be idealistic...
I went to Engineering School convinced that industrial hemp materials would replace synthetic composites within a few years. That was assuming that hemp would be decriminalized, since it seemed obvious. (that was 1996)

I appreciate sentiment...
Gifts that are little reminders that someone was on my mind are what I tend to give and what I like to get. Also, If a homeless person has the word hungry on his sign, I'll usually cave. I cave for nieces and god-daughters too. (ok and dogs)

I soak up information like a sponge...
I am great at fixing things and solving problems, but I'm famous for "absent minded professor syndrome" or just getting tripped up by unexpectedly simple things.

Sit-coms with laugh tracks creep me the f*** out.
I don't watch sports. I don't know the teams. I don't care.

Oh, just discovered that I'm allergic to Allegra... Hmm. Allergic to Allergy medicine... sounds about right.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
As always, I bend those around me to my will... *evil laugh*.

I'm a land surveyor, which is really perfect for me. It melds together all the hands-on stuff with the egghead-computer-engineering stuff. Basically, I get paid to hike around with expensive equipment.

I play bass for a Beatles-tribute band called The Repeatles. I've played twice now with another band, Ticket To Ride, and it's always glorious!

I do art photography (just to be fancy)... You can see my work here .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making mixed CDs (now, a dying art)

Pigeon Pose. (I don't know why, but it's true)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Oddly, people have remarked that I "smile all the time".

So annoying! I must destroy them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Not exhaustive and in no particular order:

Movies: The Big Lebowski, Zoolander, Lord of the Rings Movies, Eagle vs Shark, Wristcutters (A Love Story), Star Wars (of Course), Fight Club, The Matrix, A Clockwork Orange, Amadeus, Groundhog Day...

Music: Radiohead, The Beatles, All the usual Classic Rock selections (Jimi, Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Rush, etc...), Steely Dan, Built to Spill, The Smiths, Television, The Cure, Jazz, Punk, Reggae, Soul, Funk...

Food: Will go out of my way for Sushi, Pho, Indian Buffets and Good Curry, Korean BBQ. Will eat almost anything except fishy tasting fish.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Let it Be" and "No Woman No Cry" have the same chords (basically) and same tempo... hmmm.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like to iron my clothes.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm looking for a good partner... someone capable and with a good attitude...

I always try to have a positive effect on the people around me, so I'd like to find someone with the same perspective.

Also, I'm an uncle to a transgender teen nephew, so you MUST be ok with that.

Per the "golden rule"... If you write me a message that you've put some effort into, I will definitely respond. ("Hi" or "Hey. I'd like to know you better." don't qualify) Happy hunting!