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44 M San Francisco, CA

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  • Ages 34–47
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  • Who are single
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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:35pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Chinese

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My self-summary
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Why "OneBigCat?" I blame it on MBTI. According to the Myers-Briggs type assessment, I'm an ENTJ--which pairs with a "lion" (animal personality type, that is). What does that ultimately mean? I'm still trying to figure that out--but I'm going to have fun with it at the same time!

That said, I can be pretty nimble--jumping from topics humorous to serious quickly in the course of a conversation...maybe even in the same breath :)

I'm honest and devoted. I focus on what's important. I am sweet by nature (not lion like) but also protective of the people who are close to me (lion like perhaps?). Family, friends, my love... I cherish these relationships and don't forsake them.

And I like the arts... I'm the kind of guy who is more than happy to go to museums, attend the symphony. I have a bit of a creative side. And I love books. Ask me about what my graduate degree is and you'll see it involved a lot of them.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am doing what I love. I always knew that I would follow my passion, career-wise. From early on, that meant either medicine or education. I chose the latter and have not looked back. I work in edtech--good chance that you've used our software before.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Outside of work (and in the workplace), I'm good at connecting with people. I really do enjoy good conversation--especially discussions that range over a number of topics. Oh, and I thrive in an environment that is filled with bad jokes (the more awful and groan inducing...the better :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My age. People say that I look really young but I do have a mature/cultivated attitude about life
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite author = Kazuo Ishiguro;
Movies = Action to Auteur (studied film--among other things--whilst in grad school);
TV = NOT much, if at all;
Music = acid jazz, hip hop, cool jazz, classical (all of the aforementioned--at this moment);
Food = I am MOSTLY an omnivore (though I do steer clear of offal)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
What if I told you that I don't like lists?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to help people realize their fullest potential--especially our students.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe at the gym. Or spending time with my son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I welcome you to ask :)
You should message me if
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You are genuine. And, especially if you have a big heart!