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30 Santee, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-35
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 12, 2013
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Korean (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(Sorry to break hearts here, but just a heads-up: if you're male, I'm highly unlikely to want to have a romantic or sexual relationship with you. My apologies, but I'm just not interested. Good luck!)

Profile overhaul: activate!

I'm way too wordy, so I'm gonna just dump out some verbal vomit here and not spend my usual length of time assiduously prettying it up.

Pretend these are flashing neon lights, indicating my main spheres of interest: all things creative--writing, drawing, painting, singing, acting, sewing, jewelcrafting and most everything else. If it's creative, I've tried it, or would if and when I had the chance.

Also: the usual nerdy endeavors, though less Star Wars and more Dragon Age. I loves the video games, and nothing gets me more excited than a heated match of Slayer in Halo(loser washes dishes) or a fun co-op romp in the likes of (ready to roll your eyes?) Minecraft or Resident Evil (yes, even 6. I don't understand all the hate.). I really wish some of my favorite single player games had co-op, like oh say Skyrim. Seriously, how fun would that be?

But yeah, when I'm not doing something artistic or playing vidya, I'm usually out exploring and/or finding adventure in whatever way I can. Life's short, and the only one holding you back is yourself. [/Hallmark]
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I decided 2013 is the year I stop being a broke-arse girl, so I'm (tearfully) eliminating some of my just-for-fun projects (or at least setting them aside) so I can focus on projects that might actually end up getting me paid.

Right now, I'm focusing on pushing my Youtube gaming channel to levels of profitability (shut up, it's a thing), making jewelry to sell, and finishing this damn fantasy novel so I can clean it up and get it published. Dangit!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-verbal vomit (seriously, it's a never-ending stream. Watch her go!)
-creative writing (or so they say)
-getting all whipped up and excited about an idea, only to peter out and lose interest in it a short time later (I'm working on this.)
-being suspicious of people's motives (I'm also working on this.)
-getting distracted from work by really cute things, e.g. my cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Perhaps that my moods can be mercurial and I can either be moody and irritated or bubbly and effervescent, depending on circumstances and surroundings. I'm one of those chameleon-types who sponges off the moods around her; be nice to me, and I'll return the favor.

Also, I was born and raised in California, but someone never gave the memo to my skin cells so I'm ghostly pale. And tall and skinny, thanks to genes. No, not jeans. If they sold jeans that made you tall and skinny, the factories with little Chinese kids making them would burn down from running 24/7.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Let's be general, bitches love generalities:

Books: fantasy, historical fiction, period dramas. Now and then I'll read a "serious" book so I don't feel like a total troglodyte. Examples: Game of Thrones, Kushiel's Legacy, A Trio for Lute, Dark Jewels Trilogy, His Dark Materials, etc. Also Jane Austen, Emily Bronte, and so on. Also an amount of yaoi manga that would embarrass a normal person capable of feeling embarrassment.

Movies: Fantasy, historical fiction, period dramas. You catching a drift, here? Though I'll watch mostly anything, but with varying levels of attention-paying. Examples: Lord of the Rings, Legend, most Jane Austen adaptations, Brokeback Mountain (shut up, their love is beautiful).

Shows: See above. I prefer shows with well-written scripts over lots of special effects, but I'll indulge in something awful and campy now and then while I need background noise for a project. Like Walking Dead. Examples: Game of Thrones (of course), Sherlock, most BBC shows I can get access to, Farscape, Firefly, Trueblood (guilty pleasure, shut up). Not really a Dr. Who fan, though I've seen a few seasons. Sorry.

Music: Mostly anything but the popular pop and rap and country stuff. I like electronica, classical, metal, rock, old pop, oldies, even some country...just not the likes of Usher or Ke$ha. Sorrysssss. Examples: Skrillex (I know, I know. Shut up.), Fatboy Slim, Beck, My Chemical Romance (stones in glass houses. Stones in glass houses.), video game soundtracks (Have you HEARD the Halo OSTs??)

Food: I'll try anything once. ;) (Except baby cannibalism plz).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dumb question. Realistically, a computer to write on/do business on/stay connected to the outside world, and some mode of conveyance (a car would be nice, or a bike, or best yet both).

My brain, so I'm not a vegetable.

My mobility, so I don't veg.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My never-ending list of side projects. The novel I'm writing. The videos I want to make. How annoying it is to have cat hair in my nose while I'm trying to write something profound and makes-cool-people-want-to-message-me-inspiring.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lolololol "typical."

Well, I'm not adverse to going out to a club-type-thing now and then, but that generally only goes swimmingly if I'm with trusted friends. I have been known to go alone, when desperation for social outings calls.

Or I'm meeting with friends, to talk about our writing projects or walk their dog (since I lack canine companionship of my own) or play vidya.

Or, you know. Stuff. Things. Shenanigans. The usual.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I'm a really "intense" person, for lack of a better word. If you're a shrinking violet, watch out, or I might eat you alive.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Just be sane and not a crazy stalker person. Also, write like you could pass a third grade English class, please. Nothing turns me off faster than a "your" or worse yet "ur" in place of what should be "you're."

On the bright side, artistic types are strongly encouraged to reply. I'm not much into the hipster-modern-art kind of thing, but more traditional artists, as well as fiction writers, actors, etc., are right up my alley, and definitely the kind of person I want to meet.

Also if you're a girl and just want more friends of the female persuasion! About 90% of my friend-base right now is male, and while males have their uses (*wink wink nudge nudge*) there are some things that just feel too awkward to do with straight males who secretly hope you'll want to be their girlfriend someday. The friendlier, the better, though girls who manage to be friendly AND intelligent are the ambrosia of the gods and I have a powerful thirst.

That was a weird analogy.