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My self-summary
Things about me:
I once saved a friend from drowning in the Chicago river. I’ve gone face to face with abusers and criminals. I’ve been blessed at the Temple of the Divine Madman. I’ve dug in the dirt for artifacts with which my ancestors used to eat in Israel. I’ve written 6 plays, directed 8, produced 5 (acted in a bunch too)….and had one play written about me by a man I barely knew. I know how to help people fight their demons and bring back broken-off parts of their souls. I've been to the Saharan desert on a camel (don't know his name).

If I were to summarize myself in one sentence (and you can stop reading here) I'm fun, flexible, and interested in almost everything.'s what a friend wrote for me for my profile:
So, let me tell you about Onegalrejoicing. And let me say, I’m writing this guy-to-guy, as if you and I were sitting in a bar and you just asked me, “So, tell me about Onegalrejoicing.”

And I happened to like you and thought you were worthy.

So, as men, let’s face it...Personality is nice...It’s relevant....But not what we think of first, is it? So, let’s deal with it right up front - she’s cute and has range. You’ll never get bored with her look, is what I’m trying to say....If you want sexy, she can throw on the Louboutin’s, a really low cut top (one that highlights some of her finest assets), some make up and BAM! Eye-catching and alluring, the most striking woman in the room.

While she has the “hot” gear (trust me), she’s not high maintenance....Heading to a park? A hike? She’s as down-to-earth and easy going as any girl next door. Like I said, she has a range of looks that you, as a guy, are sure to be happy with, my friend. Very happy.

Beyond her looks and style, though, you’ll like her mind. She’s gregarious, intelligent, funny. I rarely see her when she’s not smiling. She’s able to find joy and pleasure in so many things - art, food, music, theater, people. She has an incredibly strong intellect; if you’re looking for a partner - a relationship - with a woman with opinions, well, you’re in luck. After any opera, a play, even a TV show, I can tell you that you’ll be able to spend hours with her talking about it and marvelling at her insight.

She’s smart AND sweet. Onegalrejoicing has an incredibly big heart and a great sense of empathy. If you need help, someone to talk to, if you like to share, you’ve found your match. She’s a great listener and sounding board - she’s a person that will be very interested in getting to know YOU. If you’re the strong, silent type - ach, probably not a good fit.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, spending time with family and friends, seeing theatre and movies, planning vacations, working out, dating....
I’m really good at
Theatre directing
Being in charge
Seeing the humor in life
Understanding people
Making friends
Dedicating myself to something
The first things people usually notice about me
People say I sparkle. I'm pretty easy going...easy to talk to, easy to be with. I'm exceptionally beware.
The six things I could never do without
The thrill of being with my warm, witty, and wise growing children,
My writing, a place to turn my tribulations into a good story
Laughter, most of life can be so damn funny if looked at through a certain lens
Courage, I want it all...I want to know it all, be it all, see it all, love it all and I'm scared all the time by the challenges life presents to those of us with this I face life with courage because I don't want to miss a thing.
Curiosity, Who are you? why are you? who could we be? why is this? what is this? I'm always asking questions...
Empathy and insight, I care about people and I've learned a thing or two...
My iPhone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Metaphysical things, the meaning of life, current events, history, what to dream about, how to keep up with my kids, how to get the most out of my time here....
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with family or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love to nurture and be nurtured. I also like doing my own thing. So I'm a bit of a contradiction.

I debate putting up a picture of me in my bikini....
You should message me if
You want a fun travel companion, are a good conversationalist, are warm, affectionate, bright, and wicked sexy. Bonus points if you love the arts and literature and are a good writer.

If politics is your passion. Awesome!

If your conversation often revolves around sports, we are so not a match.