I currently live in the 'burbs and work in SF in a career I really enjoy....part of what makes it appealing is that I can usually 'leave it at the office' when I go home. I do spend a good amount of time over in Oakland and Berkeley as well, and will probably move out closer to the city at some point.
I'd like to meet someone fun to date, doing things like checking out live music, great restaurants, weekend road trips, maybe running a race together or hitting the occasional happy hour. The journey and exploration should be fun, so let's allow things to move along at the pace that feels comfortable for both of us.
On a slightly more serious note, you should know that while I do seek to find and build something meaningful with a great woman, I'm pretty sure I don't want children. If this insight makes you hit the "back" button on your browser/app, hey, I get it, and good luck to you. I'm very comfortable being in the minority here, and am seeking those who can relate or at least can accept that. :-)
If we seem to be on the same page in terms of interests and outlook, then please contact me. I don't do a ton of searching/browsing on this site...if you're reading my profile, chances are I may not have seen yours first. Don't second-guess yourself about making the "first move", just say hello in some fashion, OK?