If you're really curious, I got very bored one afternoon and answered an absurd number of questions publicly, with explanations, so take a look at those.
Also, I'll just throw in here that I am kinky and non-monogamous, because if those don't both apply to you, there's little sense in messaging me and you can save yourself reading further. If these DO apply to you, including at least passing reference to them will substantially improve your chances of getting a response. This doesn't mean I wouldn't like a serious committed relationship - I am actually very much interested in finding a serious partner - it just means that my view of relationships generally is sufficiently non-standard that I want to disclose it up front so that women who are not interested will know and we can save the bother of finding that problem out later. Ain't nobody got time for that.