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  • Ages 32–47
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Last online
Today – 7:21pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Rodin's "Thinker" could be a self-portrait by me. Except that I more habitually sit in the lotus position.

I have a BA in Classical Studies, and a Class-A CDL, which pays my bills.

I am from a working-class background, which is not OK. Under certain circumstances, working-class values can destroy the personal qualities that would enable a person to climb out of that particular hole.

I'm not really sure to what degree I think independently, but I do think I have a pretty unique insight into human psychology.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've never had any specific answer to this particular question. I suspect that the secret to success is to inherit a very large sum of money, so as to have the time and financial resources to pursue varied interests in depth. Barring that, it helps if you're a People Person and have some single overriding interest that you pursue to the extent that you land yourself in the Hospitalized for Exhaustion club. But I'm about as far as you can get from having any of these particular operational parameters.

When I'm not tied up in my servitude to the Man I play the guitar, take photographs, and do some pottery and metal detecting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Though it is not necessarily etched in stone that I am good at these things, I can say that I've been complimented on my
Talents in the Kitchen
Talents at (adult subject matter).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ones written by JK Rowling, James Herriot, JRR Tolkien, Ann Rice, and CJ Cherryh.

Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon; Forrest Gump, Ed Wood, Big Fish.
Many flicks by Pedro Almodovar, Juzo Itami, and Woody Allen. Also Finding Nemo and The Incredibles.

Farscape, Star Trek, The Muppet show.

The Beatles, Dan Bern, Jack White, Buckethead, The Cure, Depeche Mode, Various Seattle bands, and a lot of other stuff.

About all that I don't like is the hot sort of spicy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Driver's license
Das Fotoapparat
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human habits of mind, and the hold they have over me and over others, and whether I or we could ever get free of them.

Back in the 90's I worked out the nature of the fundamental impulses that drive human thought and behavior. The consequences of having worked this out are fairly extensive in terms of the insight it gives one into the human soap opera. Just a snippet of this would be to observe that religion is not a special case of human consciousness, it's just a fabric woven from various threads, preexisting in the human mind. I have also observed that social justice is essentially the new religion of the left. There's really no distinction at all between it and ordinary religions, in the the patterns of thought and emotion that are prevalent among the true believers. What I don't know is what proportion of people for whom this observation would be as plain as day, and what proportion would find this to be completely out of left field. But I don't think humans very commonly see thought their own psychology. I know I wrestle with my own mental blocks, things that other people see through much more clearly or just handle much better than I do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dead, more or less.
You should message me if
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You'd like to go skinny dipping, and think it's more fun with a friend, and don't already have a suitable friend. Do realize that I'm just looking to get you naked, one way or another.