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44 M Indian Orchard, MA

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
My strengths and weaknesses seem to average out to about zero. I am fairly smart but I grew up with a violent person who deeply despised me, and that left me with some characteristics that exclude me from fields that would be considered professional-class, so I drive big rigs for a living.

The guitar is a rock I've been trying to push up a hill for a couple of decades.

My photography has won some praise, as has my pottery.

I wave a metal detector around a lot when the weather's fair. I have some actual gold and silver to show for it. I find that the Low Anthem's video for the song "Charlie Darwin" captures the feeling of finding things that have been lost in time.

A thousand times, I have heard that I think too much. Among the side effects of this problem is that I see the human condition from a relatively unique perspective. Human beings have a tendency to regard their values systems as the axis the the world materially revolves around, and never tire of construing the world as doing so, and it is difficult to talk to them from a position outside the box that they all insist on standing in.
What I’m doing with my life
4/15/14. 11:08am. I had intended to fire a kiln load of pottery today, but the windy conditions rule it out, as it could blow out the pilot. (The kiln is outdoors in a partially-walled shed.)

Yesterday I ordered myself a new road bike from bikes direct. A Motobecane Vent Noir. I still have my old Bridgestone RB-1 that I bought 20 years ago, and while it is an excellent bike, it doesn't really have low gears and it's too big for me, which is okay when you're young and flexible, but now I want something more comfortable, but that is still light and fast. I'm really looking forward to touring the countryside, and doing some photography. I need to get shoes for the clipless pedals. Mountain bike shoes, because you can walk around in them.

Metal detecting season got off to a bit of a late start this year, but I found my oldest coin a couple of weeks ago; a 1769 half reale, made in mexico city. It's about the size of a dime, but thinner. It came in on a wheat penny signal, and I'm really lucky I didn't accidentally destroy it, because the ground it was in was still frozen and I basically had to chop it out of frozen clay.

I found a really awesome guitar lessons channel on YT, called Cifra Club. It's from Brazil, I think, and is therefore in Portugese, but awesome nonetheless. I'm teaching myself Amy Winehouse's song "Rehab". I've also done some work on my guitars lately, lowering actions, changing strings, polishing frets. I set the action way to low on one guitar that I worked on, which is certainly fixable, but It's great for fingerstyle so I may just leave it that way. I learned some Mississippi John Hurt songs a some years ago, but have neglected my delta blues since that time so I should really get working on that again.

I guess that's enough for today.
I’m really good at
Pride, envy, wrath, sloth, etc.

l'esprit de l'escalier



Baking pies from scratch

Finding cool stuff.

Noticing things that other people don't generally bother to.

The science and history questions on Jeopardy.

The first things people usually notice about me
I guess people are too polite to tell me whatever it may be that they notice. I sparkle in direct sunlight so I have to be careful about that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Harry Potter, LOTR, Twilight. Authors including CJ Cherryh, James Herriot, Douglas Adams.

Forrest Gump; Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon; Rushmore, Unforgiven, Ed Wood, Big Fish, Princess Mononoke, Clerks. And many others. I find "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon" to be an awkward film to include in lists because the comma makes it look like it's two movies.

Farscape, Star Trek, Northern Exposure, South Park, Beavis & Butthead, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Daria. Anything by David Attenborough,

The Beatles, Dan Bern, Electro-Swing; a whole buncha stuff.

Fresh dead fish, Ground-up cows served with cheese and bacon, breads, fruits, vegetables, desserts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Many people have noticed that I think a lot.

I brood a lot over questions that other people seem to feel have already been satisfactorily answered. I used to think that other people, who regarded questions as having unambiguous answers, were in on some big secret; but it turns out they're not. They just have the emotional capability to not think about what they don't want to think about, or think that they ought not to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have only been to one Star Trek convention.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends