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45 Indian Orchard, MA Man


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  • Ages 32-47
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Last online
Today – 3:26pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Buddhism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am an unassimilated cultural mongrel. I have a degree in Classical Studies and I drive big rigs for a living. If you're going to be intelligent and introspective, do not be working class, don't be Catholic, and don't live with a violent person who despises everything that is not paradigmatic of working class masculinity. Unless, maybe, you're one hell of a lot more resilient than I am/was.

I find the Left and the Right to be equally unendurable. it's about like being Dante taking a walk through the fourth circle of Hell, watching the hoarders and wasters going at it. Except that probably I'm both types at the same time.

The perspective I have on the human game is very different from that of people who get how to play it. I've gone about as far as you can go, working out the whys of human thought and behavior, but the hows elude me entirely.
What I’m doing with my life
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Brooding. Watching the historical docudrama play itself out. Putting off trying to talk to people who are morally superior to me because they think that the only standpoint for evaluating any question is how it is attributed to characters in said docudrama, because they are unaware that any other perspective exists.

I do pottery, photography, and play the guitar.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photography. Possibly. A distinction may exist between good photographers and half-assed photographers who shoot a lot and thereby occasionally get good images.

I'd like to claim to be a good lover, but so would everyone else, which makes such a claim effectively unmakeable.

I can bake a pie from scratch.

I have been known to be a difficult opponent at Scrabble.

Giving Max his pill. But I think my other cat would cut me to ribbons if I tried that with her.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Ones written by JK Rowling, James Herriot, JRR Tolkien, Ann Rice, and/or CJ Cherryh. When I was younger I read CS Lewis, LLoyd Alexander, and Carlos Castaneda. I haven't read any thing by Ayn Rand, at least not more than a page, insofar as she had something of a prolixity issue going on, but so many people on here seem to view her as the devil, that I think that if I were to have a daughter, I would name her Ayn, just to piss off my leftward friends.

Movies: Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon; Forrest Gump, Ed Wood, Big Fish. Many flicks by Pedro Almodovar, Juzo Itami, and Woody Allen. Also Finding Nemo, Princess Mononoke, Nausicaa, and The Incredibles.

Still pictures: Alfred Stieglitz, Ansel Adams, Edward Weston, Imogen Cunningham, Jock Sturges.

Paint: Modigliani, Klee, O'Keefe, Dali, Schiele, Bierstadt.

Das Fernseher: Farscape, Star Trek, The Muppet show.

Sounds: The Beatles, Dan Bern, Jack White, Buckethead, The Cure, Siouxsie, Depeche Mode, Various Seattle bands, and a lot of other stuff.

Cuisine: About all that I don't like is the hot sort of spicy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Digital imaging technology
Chocolate ( dark, as if you needed to ask )
I am an introvert who experiences loneliness. Which strikes me as a paradox. And which creates inconvenient conflicting needs.

At this point it is evident that I can live without sex. But from what I remember, sometimes it was nice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot. It's kind of a clusterfuck to think too much. You end up with a lot of observations to make, that no one else is likely to understand. And a lot that will rub people the wrong way. Among the humans it is far more important to assimilate than to sound out ideas.

The left's new religions of Social Justice and Climate Change. Oh, please.

Guitars, guns, cameras. Whee!

Cholesterol, carbohydrates, gluten. Broccoli.

The things I'd be doing if I weren't procrastinating.

Why dog owners have a tendency to trash cats, while cat owners, as far as I can tell, have no corresponding negative attitude toward dogs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Just mostly dead. Big difference between that and totally dead.
You should message me if
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My favorite line from the tv series Firefly: "I've been waiting for you to kiss me ever since I showed you my guns." I think I'm basically living in the wrong time and place to ever hear a woman say anything like that to me, but if you think I'm wrong, and that you're the reason I'm wrong, I'd like to hear from you.