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37 M Flushing, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:49am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
So you're here screening another guy (me, this time) to see if you might get along. Let me get some of the basic "clearance" stuff out of the way.

I don't: have a wife and family hidden away (the kids are right here with me; oops, maybe me having kids would be part of your next level of screening...sorry if I jumped the gun); have body parts in my fridge or freezer (unless bacon counts?); recycle cans as my main source of income (or as a supplementary source either).

So that covers relationship-safety-job security. Let me know if I'm missing any basics. Oh - I also don't think I have any really annoying idiosyncrasies (other than using parentheses very often).

Now that that's out of the way, maybe you'll want to know more. I could write more, but maybe you'd rather just ask me something specific. Or maybe you prefer to read between the lines and make guesses about me - fun! Sometimes what people don't say is more telling than what they do say, right?
What I’m doing with my life
I'm balancing responsibility with recreation, but it's not so easy when doing what I want is so much more fun than doing what I should.

But things are changing; I used to hate the gym, but now go 3-5x per week. I use the calendar on my phone and even set reminders and such. I've never been good about keeping commitments for my own personal good...

However, I'd like to think I'm pretty good about prioritizing the people I care about. I don't need to book time in my calendar for friends and family. ;) Maybe one day you can ask them yourself what they think about me, but I'm not handing out references just yet!
I’m really good at
Making it look like I'm not doing anything positive. Taking full responsibility for my mistakes. Not taking orders from anyone.

No wonder I wasn't loving working in corporate America.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm usually smiling or laughing. The few times I'm not, someone usually asks me if something's wrong.

Sometimes something is, but sometimes everything is just fine. Hey, sometimes you have to think of something amusing before you smile or laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Game of Thrones, World War Z, Soft Maniacs, The Road.

Movies: A wide range that includes Super Troopers, Hard Boiled, The Boondock Saints, The Dark Knight, La Haine, Casablanca, and Sean of the Dead

Shows: Game of Thrones, The Following, The Walking Dead, The League, Homeland, Law & Order SVU, Banshee, Bar Rescue, Tattoo Nightmares, The Voice.

Speaking of music: I miss the time when hip hop was about lyricists and beats by DJ Premier. Seeing the videos for Microphone Fiend by Eric B. & Rakim and Halftime by Nas for the first time blew my mind - you could say Hip Hop was my first love. My tastes grew and I am from the time where if you wanted to dip into an artists' back catalog, you had to order the CD's from their independent label and have them shipped. I did that for Green Day after I soaked up Dookie and stuck with them. I loved them long before it was normal to think they were absolutely awesome.

In addition to those aforementioned artists, I'm into Handsome Boy Modeling School, Josiah Leming, Arctic Monkeys, The Beatles, Jackson 5, Michael Jackson, Bruno Mars, John Legend, and lots more.

Food: LOVE food. Filipino, Spanish, Steak, Italian, Indian, Japanese, Korean, basically anything.
The six things I could never do without
1. My kids
2. A good, hot shower every day
3. A sense of taste (not being able to taste anything when I'm sick is misery)
4. Entertainment of some kind
5. Puma sneakers and Cole Haan shoes
6. Car keys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to eventually match my life to this lyric:

"Every day is Saturday, my friend.
Go to sleep, wake up - hey! It's Saturday again!"

Ahh, if only...
On a typical Friday night I am
During the summer? I don't have Fridays. (cue the music)

"Everyday is Saturday, my friend.
Go to sleep, wake up - hey! It's Saturday again!"

I'm trying to get the other 10 months of the year to look more like this...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like a song by Taylor Swift. Did I mention that I'm 36?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You feel like it. What's the worst that could happen, right?

Hmm, that seems to be what goes through my head, anyways, before I message a woman I'm interested in.