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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:59pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, and might want more
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
They say you should lead with your best qualities, so here goes:

I am separated with three kids. They also say I'm not good with following directions. ;)

My kids don't need a new mom, and neither do I. I'm a grown man with a stable career, and I'm on here to find someone who is right for me, and if me having kids is a problem...well then, you wouldn't be right for me...right?

If you're okay with that, I'll tell you a little more about me:

I prefer laughing over arguing.
I work to live, but I love my work.
I'm not the center of attention; I'm more off-center.
I like small groups over big crowds.
People say I have a way with words - quick wit in conversations as well as the written word.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a teacher, and I've been doing my thing for over seven years now at the same school, working in a high need area. It is challenging, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

In late 2013, I made a very important decision to take better care of myself. I went from a guy who had been to a gym maybe five times in the past decade to a guy who now goes to the gym 4-6x/week. I recently joined a boxing gym, too, because I love the sport and want to learn, and also to switch things up a bit. This is not to say I'm in tremendous shape, but I'm moving in the right direction.

Now, if only I could show more control over what I eat...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Observational humor. Quick one-liners. Finding places to eat.

I hope there's more to this list, but those are the ones that jump out at me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I zig when everyone else zags.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Game of Thrones, World War Z, Soft Maniacs, The Road.

Movies: A wide range that includes Super Troopers, Hard Boiled, The Boondock Saints, The Dark Knight, La Haine, Casablanca, and Sean of the Dead

Shows: Game of Thrones, The Following, The Walking Dead, The League, Homeland, Law & Order SVU, Banshee, Bar Rescue, Tattoo Nightmares, The Voice.

Speaking of music: I miss the time when hip hop was about lyricists and beats by DJ Premier. Seeing the videos for Microphone Fiend by Eric B. & Rakim and Halftime by Nas for the first time blew my mind - you could say Hip Hop was my first love. My tastes grew and I am from the time where if you wanted to dip into an artists' back catalog, you had to order the CD's from their independent label and have them shipped. I did that for Green Day after I soaked up Dookie and stuck with them. I loved them long before it was normal to think they were absolutely awesome.

In addition to those aforementioned artists, I'm into Handsome Boy Modeling School, Josiah Leming, Arctic Monkeys, The Beatles, Jackson 5, Michael Jackson, Bruno Mars, John Legend, and lots more.

Food: LOVE food. Filipino, Spanish, Steak, Italian, Indian, Japanese, Korean, basically anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My kids
2. A good, hot shower every day
3. A sense of taste (not being able to taste anything when I'm sick is misery)
4. Entertainment of some kind
5. Puma sneakers and Cole Haan shoes
6. Car keys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to eventually match my life to this lyric:

"Every day is Saturday, my friend.
Go to sleep, wake up - hey! It's Saturday again!"

Ahh, if only...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a couple of drinks with co-workers, catching up with a friend, watching a movie, having dinner - anything to unwind after a busy week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sing along to Ed Sheeran songs when I'm driving. Ok, so that wasn't really a secret.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel like it. What's the worst that could happen, right?

Hmm, that seems to be what goes through my head, anyways, before I message a woman I'm interested in.