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Opaleye

52 / F / straight / Single

Eugene, Oregon

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Sign_Language (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am original, comedic, and tender.

My Self-Summary

I work hard and play soft! Busy all the time, but mostly because I keep myself amused to fill up the time, not because I'm over committed. I have a wide variety of interests, especially in the creative arts, but also music, theater/film and business. I try to live with intention, making choices that enhance my spiritual, physical, emotional and social self. I love to love. I'm seeking more enjoyment and companionship.

What I’m doing with my life

I work, have my own small business, give service in the community, spend time with my family and try to live life on purpose. I believe God is love. I believe that loving is our highest achievment. I try to expand my ability to express and receive love every day. I ride a bike to try to take care of my body and reduce my impact on the planet.

I’m really good at

Designing jewelry, making things by hand. I'm an above average cook, but living alone, I find myself having rather eclectic meals...I give service to others and I keep my commitments. I am a really great friend.

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably that I'm a big woman. I have large breasts and am very curvey. I suppose that some men are not interested and that's fine. I don't have to please everyone, just that special someone. People who look past my size see a vibrant, joyous woman. I make all my own jewelry and some of it is really amazing. I laugh easily and love fully. I'm no push over, but I don't try to control others, so sometimes guys think they can use me or get away with being a jerk. They don't get a second date.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I read a lot. I like science fiction and especially the stuff that can make me laugh like Douglas Adams, Neil Gaimon and Terry Prachet. Catherine Asaro for hard science fiction. Joan D'Vinge for her Cat series and amazing worlds. Movies, I tend toward drama, comedy, adventure and sci-fi. I've read the Harry Potter series several times and own all the movies. I saw Star Wars Episode 1 18 times in the theater. It was a tough year and that movie made me feel better. (some of those were in the cheap seats!) Music I guess would be folk/folk rock. I enjoy jazz and sometimes I'm even in the mood for classical. And even though I'm very reluctant to admit it, I sometimes listen to Christian rock music and gospel. I always go to the Willamette Valley Music Festival, the Oregon Country Fair and the Eugene Celebration, all for the music more than anything else.

Food, well, I like food. I'm an omnivore, devoted to high quality, locally grown fruits and veges as well as meat when I can afford it. I eat fish at least once a week. Thai is awesome, I love Sweet Basil's. I have a wheat alergy so I don't go for pizza much. Simple foods are fine as long as the quality is there. My favorite all time food is probably watermelon closely followed by perfectly ripe organically grown peaches. MMMMMMM

The six things I could never do without

Sex, salmon, sterling silver, socializing, serenity, and service.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My role in the world, how I can make my own life better, how I can serve others and the planet. I also just try to listen to that inner Voice. The one that speaks the language of love.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends. I go to a meeting and then we go to Alan Bros for tea and conversation.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I like to take turns.

You should message me if

It feels like a the right thing to do...