Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a unique & original guy, a one of a kind. I step to the
beat of a different drummer. I'm a rare breed as I am always
genuine in how I act & in what I say. I have a good sense of
humor. Many who know me often show they are happy to know & be
around me. However, I do have the courage to be myself, which means
I'm not afraid to be or say as I feel. In other words not everyone
likes me. Usually those who are afraid of conflict or feel
uncomfortable being themselves. Like many others, I do face life
challenges. I have my ups & my downs. The difference is I see
it all being beneficial to my growth. I don't necessarily see
someone or something as 'bad' or 'good', 'right' or 'wrong'. I
honestly believe however it looks, even if it makes me feel
uncomfortable, is a part of me, is exactly what I need to
experience. There are moments that most would consider to be
unfavorable that really got me to be more present. So I'd say I
often meet those challenges head on & have a well balanced
character because of it. I accept myself for where I am at. So yeah
I got apparent flaws/ imperfections but I also see the beauty in
them & know I am experiencing a human body experience &
simutaneously know I am more than just a human & experience the
spirit & essence of life. I'm constantly in self discovery. I
listen & do my best to follow my heart & my inner guidance.
So if I have to say "Yes" or "No". I make decisions not choices.
There is a difference. My decisions come from within, choices come
from the mental mind. There is also a part of me that makes even my
best friend of 10 years still have a sense of wonderment in knowing
something new about me. I always seem to be unfolding, like a
flower constantly blooming. I constantly experience shifts &
transformations. The guy I am today will be totally new tomorrow.
Many I have meet in my path have told me that they feel like they
already know me, even when first meeting me. There is a certain
indescribable energy about me. That energy is something will make
some want to hug me & make others want to run for the hills.
Oh, & I apparently have a face that many will say looks
familiar regardless if my face clean shaven or not & regardless
of what style of clothing I wear. I have a voice that people say is
comforting & reassuring. I voice my ideas & insights, so
even if some may not like what they hear or don't agree with what
they hear, at least I'm being me & that is something people
respect. Anyhow I'll leave you with that.
If it feels right then I'm sure I will hear from you. Until then...
PS: I don't limit my connection /relationship with you based on
your age, distance or our "match %". I'm also not interested in
false beliefs or judgements. If you want to 'think' I am this or
that simply because of our age difference, apparent physical
distance, or because of what my photo looks like- then you clearly
have no clue who I actually am.. rather merely an illusionary idea
of who you think I am. Jump to conclusions if you want, but that is
not going to make me into something I am not. I am who I am. If you
are open to it, you will discover the truth. If not you will just
tell yourself lies, reasons, judgements, excuses & bla bla
Prepare to be surprised. Open to the unknown. Just be it in &
we'll see what happens. Allow it to be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
It is awesome!
I've also have a bunch of travel destinations that I'll be visiting
By the way- not sure where to put this, but if you live in another
state or country & I am interested.. you reply & our
conversation/ connection is really good & it feels right... I
will do anything & everything I can to come see you & meet
you in person. Be it for hang out, date or sex. I won't just 'hook
up' with anyone, but if there is a spark & we enjoy each
other's company then yes I would enjoy being intimate with you. It
can be causal, perhaps it will lead into something more.. I'm just
open to it.
I enjoy traveling, so if I contact you that means I'd be more than
happy to follow through in actually meeting you/ being with you.
Also.. I am willing to relocate. I've relocated before for a girl
& I'm willing to do it again.
In response to how some members act. Allow me to say this: I
understand some members are not looking for "casual sex" but let's
be at least honest... we all do it. We are sexual beings. Sure we
can chat & we can meet up, but if I am sincerely interested in
you- that means I'm open to the idea of you being my girlfriend. If
you become my girlfriend then yes we will be having sex. Sex is
part of the relationship. Sex is an element of connection. I
understand some members are not looking for a one night or hook up.
I'd agree in that I too am looking for something with more
substance. Thing is sometimes there's a spark, there is a moment
& we dive into it & we have sex. I'm not looking for casual
sex, but it does happen sometimes- because to truly know if there
is a connection then yes being intimate is a step we are going to
have to take to discover if there's more to it or not. And yes
sometimes this results in one nights & sometimes it's resulted
in longer term relationships. Whatever may happen I agree to one
thing I'll be open, honest & do my very best to communicate.
Many situations have been 'we did it a few times' & then
mutually agree for whatever reason it's not the kind of intimacy we
are looking for. So I get many members may be put off by guys
looking for just sex, but please be realistic that sex does happen
& is a step towards the possibility of having a long term
boyfriend- which is why I'd hope you are here. So please stop
turning a blind eye simply because I mention "sex" or what you are
looking for "in bed". Please remember it is part of who we are, a
part of nature & it's normal to want to be intimate &
sexual towards someone. Rather than seeing it as a turn off, you
can see it as a compliment. I'm not here just to have sex, or get
you in bed- but I'm intelligent enough to know that 9 times out of
10 sex will happen before we can even hope to establish a "long
term" relationship. As much as we wish to say otherwise we all do
it. We are looking at profiles we find physically attractive &
then see if they have our sense of humor, some similar interests.
So deep down as much as some like to deny it we are asking
ourselves "Do I want to have sex with them?" "Do I find myself
sexually attracted to them?". So please stop acting like sex, or
man's interest in having sex with you is such a 'bad' thing. I
realize there are guys like that out there that want that &
only that, but don't act dumb like your not looking for some.
That's what we are here for. We are here looking for a partner, a
connection & yes that (for most profiles looking for more than
friends) will involve being intimate.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Focusing inward, deep within my essence
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm happy :D
Actually even a few friends have nicknamed me & call me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Sedona Method, Zen & the art of making a living,
A Course of Love, The Power of Now, Secrets of Shamanism, Magical
Passes, Letting Go, Vessel,
Amulet series, Spice & Wolf, The Heroic Legend of Arslan, The
Dark Knight, Akira,
Medicine Cards, Spirit of the Wheel mediation book &
Game of Thrones, Vikings, Black Sails, True Detectives,
It's a very large spectrum.
This year I have been eating healthier, raw, organic, etc. Overall
I eat most cooking styles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
How about one?
Life Itself! Which is.. All That Is.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Traveling to various European countries next summer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
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