I am a very creative & unique guy. I am genuine & natural in how I approach things. I am open minded, outgoing, enjoy nature, traveling & so much more. I am easy to get along with & fun to be around.
I am looking for amazing connections. I am all about meeting in person. I usually do chat first & within a month or two I meet in person. I also do Skype if your open to it after we had 3-7 chats. Skype or no Skype the rule to meeting still applies. There is no pressure, no drama, no judgements, but I do have priorities. If you are not willing to meet within 2-3 months then I do not feel you are being sincere in your search here for new friends, dating, sex, etc. Chat is ok, but let's keep our relationship real shall we. Once a member & I had beautiful conversation for 6 months & 3 more months past before they said they did not feel they were ready for a relationship. With that said my first request is for you to have the courage to be honest with yourself, then convey that honesty to me. I am not here to play games, to tease, to stalk, to scam, or any other non-sense. You are either here to create new connections / new relationships or you are not. I deserve to have real connections, to meet you in person. That's what dating is, last I checked. I just want to travel & have some new experiences. I am open to meeting new friends, lovers, fellow artists, creative minds or those who are just simply awesome to be around. I do casual to intellectual conversation. I good at talking & listening. Overall I am well balanced in character & personality. For members who live over seas I am open to Skype with you be it either chat/video/call. I am looking for over seas friends, so when I do travel I will know at least several people. Over all I focused on having a real connection with someone reasonably local. I mention all this because some members have a profile here for fun, to test it out, but not really willing to meet. I am here to meet people be it this online site or otherwise.
All in all I am really approaching this whole site differently than most. That may surprise you, that may intimate you, you may not be sure what to think. My suggestion? Go for a moment, in stillness..beyond these words & let your heart do the talking & then take action in what it tells you. Don't let your mind chatter get in the way. The mind has tendencies to create reasons, excuses, problems, judgement, compare, bla bla bla etc. Your heart knows what is best, to listen to it the mind has to be quite for awhile.
I then appeal to your heart. Have the courage to connect & message me. Have the courage to step away from your computer or phone & meet with me. I can be a great friend. What to know more? Just ask.
I do my best to look beyond pictures & words to truly connect with who you are. So if I contacted you, I am clearly sincere in my affections & intentions.
Why the Cropped Photo?
For those of you wondering I cropped my photo for a reason, no it's not because I am trying to hide something. It's because I want you to see me & see my eyes for the first time in person. The saying that eyes are the window to the soul is true. When I meet in person that's when I connect the strongest. That is my intention for the crop. My hair is curly ash blonde. My eyes are considered blue but in truth change colors. They sometimes lean towards blue green & sometimes in moments can even have splashes of hazel in them. My eyes actually change color depending on my energy or day. One photo is not going to properly express what my eyes have to say in this very moment. That is why you have to see them in person. Besides having the photo cropped adds a bit of mystery. Hopefully another reason to want to know more.
- Another unfortunate reason is because there is the possibility that a scammer takes your photos without your permission & uses it. Not paranoid about it, but being realistic that I have seen it happen to someone I know. Cropping the photo keeps them at bay since a cropped photo like this is not really worth it. Lucky enough okcupid is very good about getting rid of scammers here, but they do pop in now & then, never for long though.
About Casual Sex:
Some may frown upon the idea but I am open to casual sex. I am not here just for sex, but I am open to it. I like cute women but so that we are clear this doesn't mean I am a whore, stalker or creep, or any of that nonsense. I am just a regular average lovable guy who looks to live life to the fullest. I don't see being open to casual sex as bad, or wrong. If you are looking for more than a 'hook up'... I do respect that & I'd still be interested in you & willing to meet you. Just because I am open to it, don't write me off so quickly. Some members will not even speak to you if your open to casual sex. Last I check we all do it, unless your a virgin & strict in your faith. If I meet the right woman committing to one woman (or two women if she's bi) is something I have done before & have no issues with. I do have more depth & respect than that. So please stop judging someone simply because they are open to something you are not, or more open verbally about it than you are. Sex is natural expression of connecting & of love. I am comfortable with my sex life, or at times lack of it (without partner). Are you?