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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-78
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 27
5' 5" (1.65m)
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Ok this needed a re-working and more information.

I'm a family man with a difficult marriage. I don't want to give it up, mainly for the kids. She's told me to go get "it" elsewhere, but I don't want to, and yet, the main thing that's missing is not so much good sex per se but someone who smiles at me, encourages me and is empathetic. Also someone who will receive the same from me.

I'm a professional in my work life, responsible, safe, sane - just a bit lonely

I am ardent, empathetic, and sane
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, raising a family, keeping a marriage together. I'm not looking for someone to cry to, just someone to befriend and have fun with (not necessarily sexual) online or otherwise.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding, Communicating. Being a friend. Analysing ideas. Understanding and predicting politics. Making people feel loved. Inadvertently pissing people off. (Had to keep this honest.) And, I've been told, all the right bedroom things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Handsome face, engaging brown eyes and, if you're lucky, a beautiful smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Non-Fiction mostly

Movies: I don't see too many these days that aren't rated G. I liked Ratatouille (the movie.) I loved Secretary. High Fidelity. But I'm a Cheerleader. Sabrina. The Notebook. (Yeah I like some chick flicks what about it!) The new Casino Royale. Bound. These are just random off the top of my head.

Music: Could go on forever, start with the Beatles, go to Gwenn Stefani, Narry Nilsson, Stevie Wonder, David Bowie, Cream, The Who, The KInks (yes, I'm in my 40's; maybe you can introduce me to more newer music.) Also classical and jazz. I'll go for almost anything as long as it's good at what it is.

Food: Not too picky. The company's more important.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Honesty Passion Hope Laughter Music Creative, mutually fulfilling sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make my world and THE world better

... and ummm... kinky sex. Ok cupid., I said it ... including BDSM; I'm a switch. I've been told I'm a good partner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wondering what we could do together
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well - I've pretty much laid it out. I'm married, kinky, lonely. (That's not the issue though - she can be too.) Looking for friendship and someone to talk with including about sex though probably not do sex.
You should message me if
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You want to make my life better and want me to make yours better