Ok this needed a re-working and more information.
I'm a family man with a difficult marriage. I don't want to give it
up, mainly for the kids. She's told me to go get "it" elsewhere,
but I don't want to, and yet, the main thing that's missing is not
so much good sex per se but someone who smiles at me, encourages me
and is empathetic. Also someone who will receive the same from
I'm a professional in my work life, responsible, safe, sane - just
a bit lonely
I am ardent, empathetic, and sane
What I’m doing with my life
Working, raising a family, keeping a marriage together. I'm not
looking for someone to cry to, just someone to befriend and have
fun with (not necessarily sexual) online or otherwise.
I’m really good at
Understanding, Communicating. Being a friend. Analysing ideas.
Understanding and predicting politics. Making people feel loved.
Inadvertently pissing people off. (Had to keep this honest.) And,
I've been told, all the right bedroom things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Handsome face, engaging brown eyes and, if you're lucky, a
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Non-Fiction mostly
Movies: I don't see too many these days that aren't rated G. I
liked Ratatouille (the movie.) I loved Secretary. High Fidelity.
But I'm a Cheerleader. Sabrina. The Notebook. (Yeah I like some
chick flicks what about it!) The new Casino Royale. Bound. These
are just random off the top of my head.
Music: Could go on forever, start with the Beatles, go to Gwenn
Stefani, Narry Nilsson, Stevie Wonder, David Bowie, Cream, The Who,
The KInks (yes, I'm in my 40's; maybe you can introduce me to more
newer music.) Also classical and jazz. I'll go for almost anything
as long as it's good at what it is.
Food: Not too picky. The company's more important.
The six things I could never do without
Honesty Passion Hope Laughter Music Creative, mutually fulfilling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make my world and THE world better
... and ummm... kinky
sex. Ok cupid., I said it ... including
; I'm a switch. I've been told I'm a good partner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Wondering what we could do together
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well - I've pretty much laid it out. I'm married, kinky, lonely.
(That's not the issue though - she can be too.) Looking for
friendship and someone to talk with including about sex though
probably not do sex.
You should message me if
You want to make my life better and want me to make yours better