Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a native New Yorker, I am concerned about the plight of our
society, interested in alternative life-styles , and generally very
I have two wonderful children and I cherish my relationships with
both of them. I live with them and their mom. My relationship with
their mom is no longer romantic, has not been for over 10 years but
we get along well enough and are raising the children
We have an open marriage everything is above board. It is actually
more like a co-parenting friendship. Now that the children are
getting older, I hope to set up a second household.
Being opened to creative relationship structures is very important
to me. I am very much against conformity and especially following
society's rules governing how to love and be in relationships. This
is not simply to be different but about having the freedom and
flexibility to make connections and find happiness which is hard
enough without societal constraints.
I would like to say up front that I am looking for intimacy and
hopefully love but a nice friendship is also fine. I am bisexual
and polyamorous. I am opened to dating a couple, perhaps as a
secondary for both or in an ongoing FWB situation. I am also
interested in dating women that are polyamorous.
Please, no hook-ups.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am intensely curious, believe in life long learning and enjoy
generating, sharing, listening to and exploring ideas. I have a
degree in medicine and a strong interest in biotechnology (drug
development). I hope to follow this path in the future. Right now I
teach and am in the process of building a business.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and conversation.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So, here is the obligatory list of things about me. The kind of
stuff that interests me. I would like to say up front that these
things change over time and so I try not to over emphasize the
importance of having any one in particular in common. At the end of
the day it is the willingness to share the basic attributes that
define our humanity that is important to me; the joy, sorrow,
lessons learned, ambitions and hopefully the desire to make life
better for the people that are part of your intimate circle. ok,
here it goes.
I am very interested in art (sketch) you can find me at the Met
sketching sculpture or sketching from life at the Art Student
League, I go Saturday mornings and have also enrolled my children
in the program the League has for young people. They have both
taken to it and I am pleased.
I also enjoy music. I play a little guitar and piano (rock, blues,
Flamenco, classical). I like all kinds of music: Latin, dance,
classical, jazz, old school R&B, rock, metal, world etc. and
love being turned on to new sounds.
I am also an avid reader of novels. My favorite authors right now
are Virginia Woolf, Mann, Joyce, and Faulkner. I just finished "To
the Lighthouse" by V. Woolf, and recently purchased two courses
from the teaching company that include lectures covering her work.
Can't say enough about her.
I think it would be fun to read with someone and share thoughts and
ideas as we move through a novel together and I love being
introduced to a new literary voice.
I love to cook, grew up in the Italian home of my grandparents. I
am pretty good at the traditional Sicilian all day Sunday meal. I
can do vegetarian as well but as I said I grew up in a Sicilian
house so I am an omnivore, lol.
I grew up in a working class neighborhood and still enjoy many of
the activities that were part of my childhood. I like to take in a
Mets game or watch the Jets on a Sunday, I also like shooting pool
or playing darts in a dive bar and I love poker.
I also love the outdoors, especially places that are peaceful (the
cloisters, on the lake at central park, the beach on Fire Island
clothing optional ; )
I like to live as anxiety free a life as possible. I'm not always
successful at this but I try. I like to meditate and am open to new
ideas and techniques to enrich this experience. I love
Finally, I would like to say that I am a very curious person and am
open to trying and learning about new things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relationships, love, parenting, solutions to social problems
involving education and healthcare, art and science.
Sex positive and body positive attitudes.
Why my children can sing 3 different insurance company jingles, and
to their heart's delight!! ugh!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am afflicted with a tragic inability to spell!
You should message me if
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You are a couple or woman that is poly or interested in alternative
lifestyles and relationships, this means opened to having more than
one loving relationships and structuring time in new creative ways.
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