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57 Albany, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:47am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly vegetarian
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, I'm a pretty fun social person who loves hanging out with all different types of people, doing different things and talking about many subjects. That being said, my favorite things are music, art, culture and people. Going to museums, concerts, and enjoying nature are high on the list. I also love being introduced to new experiences by others. Finally, I'm pretty laid back, interesting with some edge - but not pretentious! I like to treat people the way I would like to be treated.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Still working this one out. i work as a writer in the technical world and in my personal life, I seek out creative pursuits. Love my family, my friends (old and new). I focus on the now, try to plan for the future, but mostly working on being happy in the present.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at making people feel comfortable, making them laugh, being entertaining and having intellectual/creative/thought provoking conversations. I'm a very loyal friend and trustworthy to a fault. I'm good at helping others and fostering good relationships that last a lifetime.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my personality, humor and sincerity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Way too much to put in here. There is no way I could list everything, so I'll just give some samples. Books: David Sedaris, David Byrne, Kurt Vonnegut, Kafka, Joyce, William Burroughs, Gunter Grass, etc. Movies: Kubrick, Lynch, Hitchcock, Wes Anderson, Tarentino, Fellini, Woody Allen, etc. Shows: Not into musicals much. But love modern opera and symphony and dance. Music: Brian Eno, Sun Ra, Phillip Glass, Steve Reich, Radiohead, Johnny Cash, Massive Attack, Camper Van Beethoven, Jack White, David Bowie, Beatles, Anton Tobin, Tom Waits, Medeski, Martin & Wood, Bill Frisell, Buddy Miller, Marc Ribot, Richard Thompson, John Zorn, Ry Cooder, Fred Frith, Aimee Mann, Michael Penn, Air, Laurie Anderson, Lou Reed, John Cale, Aphex Twin, Art Bears, Henry Cow, Bang On A Can, Brian Wilson, Beastie Boys, Beck, Beyonce, Billy Bragg, Wilco, Nels Cline, Bjork, Boards of Canada, Bob Dylan, Can, Captain Beefheart, Cat Power, Christian Marclay, Danger Mouse, Cornelius, Cibo Matto, Daniel Lanois, David Byrne, Talking Heads, St. Vincent, DJ Shadow, Nino Rota, Ennio Morricone, Fiona Apple, Frank Zappa, Modest Mouse, Stereolab, Harold Budd, John Cage, Herb Albert, Husker Du, Gong, If By Yes, Iggy Pop, Jay-Z, Jethro Tull, Nora Jones, John Lennon, Yoko Ono, Sean Lennon, Paul McCartney, Kate Bush, King Crimson, Robert Fripp, Lambchop, Led Zeppelin, Lee "Scratch" Perry, Lee Renaldo, Sonic Youth, Minutemen, Naked City, Mystical Weapons, Neil Young, Nick Cave, XTC, Andy Partridge, Peter Blegvad, Peter Gabriel, Paul McCartney, Pink Floyd, Pixies, PJ Harvey, Public Enemy, Regina Spektor, Robert Wyatt, Robyn Hitchcock, Sinead O' Conner, Steve Earle, Steve Reich, Stevie Wonder, Sufjan Stevens, T-Bone Burnett, Tangerine Dream, Television, Tom Verlaine, Terry Riley, The Album Leaf, The Apples in Stereo, The Bad Plus, The Black Keys, The Blind Boys of Alabama, The Golden Paliminos, The Ghost Of A Saber Tooth Tiger, The Kinks, The Magnetic Fields, The Monkees, The Residents, The Rolling Stones, The Strokes, The Tiger Lillies, The White Stripes, The Who, The Zombies, They Might Be Giants, Thievery Corporation, This Heat, Thom Yorke, Thurston Moore, Tied and Tickled Trio, Tindersticks, Tom Tom Club, The Specials, The Clash, Tortoise, Van Der Graaf Generator, Van Morrison, Vic Chestnutt, Wadada Leo Smith, Paul Simon, Wayne Horvitz, Wendy Carlos, Wire, X, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Yes, Yuka Honda, Zeena Parkins, etc. Food: Pretty much anything, but I lean towards vegetarian and fish when I can.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter
Friends and Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I could do to make my life more meaningful, happier, more fulfilling. Being creative and making a difference in other people's lives. Building my relationships and making them stronger. How to have fun in as many ways as possible. Basically, how to really enjoy life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Different stuff from going out with friends, going out by myself, visiting people, or staying home and hopefully doing something fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That's the kind of thing to talk about in person. Got to leave something for real interaction.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to. I'm looking to find friends first, so there's no pressure and more room to enjoy ourselves. If something develops, that's great. Hope to hear from you.