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34 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:09pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a quirky 33 yr old opera singer who just made a move from Portland, OR to Oakland, CA. 2 yrs ago I made a move back to Oregon after 4 1/2 years of living in London, England. It was both great and strange to be back home after so long. I am a very outgoing, spontaneous, sarcastic, silly, and slightly crazy person. Music is life for me and I love to share it with others. I'm pretty low maintenance, and by that I mean I am very laid back and appreciate the simple things. A dozen expensive roses wouldn't impress me but a post-it note on the mirror and a daisy from the garden would have me giggling like a school girl. I don't take hours too get ready, I don't wear high heels and then complain that my feet hurt all night. I like looking nice but am happy in jeans and a hoodie with a pair of flip-flops. I am very sincere and honest and usually quite blunt. I am easy to talk to and love having interesting conversations. I enjoy people that are laid back, easy to talk to, spontaneous, funny, and interesting. I want to hear about travels and crazy stories. I want to meet someone who will throw some clothes into a backpack and head off on some crazy adventure with me. Someone that doesn't take themself too seriously and hopefully won't take me too seriously either! :) Someone to laugh with. ... Someone who's not afraid to be themself.

I am outgoing, compassionate, and ready for anything
What I’m doing with my life
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I just finished a degree in Vocal Performance and Vocal Pedagogy.I currently teach singing lessons, work with at risk youth and run/design events for a new performance space. I perform quite frequently and I am part of a variety of different performance groups, always trying to dive in wherever I can. These performance opportunities also get me on the road and traveling quite often.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm told I'm a pretty good cook and a great tour guide for friends coming into town.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People have told me they notice:

My eyes
My lips
My eclectic jewelry
My tattoos
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Water for Elephants by Sara Gruen, Diary by Chuck Palahniuk, Fugitives and Refugees by Chuck Palahniuck, Lamb: The Gospel According to Biff, Christ's Childhood Pal by Christopher Moore

Movies: Shawshank Redemption, Boondock Saints, The Pianist, The Secretary, Big Lebowski, Watchmen, Fight Club, Big Fish, Edward Scissorhands, Kill Bill (1 and 2), Titus, Amadeus, and anything by Christopher Guest.

TV: House, Criminal Minds, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia.

Music: Too many to even begin to list. Seriously!

Food: Sushi, Thai, Indian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog, my friends, my family, my music, my epi-pen, my sanity(slightly off though it may be)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's next!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical night in my life!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have stupidly small hands and feet! And I kinda love going to bed with damp hair. I'm really not even sure why.
You should message me if
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You feel compelled to and you think we'd get along! Don't worry, I play nice most of the time!