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OpheliaCourage

19 / M / Gay / Single

Missoula, Montana

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 4" (1.93m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am understanding, able, and uncertain.

My Self-Summary

I write 99 on my finger to remember how certain people in my life linger still, even long after they're gone.

I've talked to a lot of different people from a lot of different places and after a while everyone starts sounding the same. Eventually all the names start soundings familiar and you start to wonder if you've talked to them before. And then you can't even remember who you're talking to in real life or who told you what and everything starts to run together.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm looking for people who will stick out from the sea of faces. People memorable, unique just like I am, or so I've been told.

What I’m doing with my life

I want to be a songwriter. I want to make people feel better about themselves through song. I want to give people hope and inspiration to not give up. I just want to make a difference. But as of right now, I'm working part-time at a Directv call center and Starbucks. I think if I met the right guy, I could settle down and work at Starbucks forever. :)

I’m really good at

Playing my guitar and writing my own music. I'm good at understanding people and having empathy. Not to sound conceited, but I'm really good at making people like me.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm smiling and I'm tall. I'm a smiling giant.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I have soooo many different favorite books and movies an music that I couldn't list them all here. I will however list my favorites of all time.

My favorite book: To Kill A Mockingbird

My favorite movies: Saved!, Clue,

My favorite musicians and artists: Katy Perry and Lady Gaga. I know what most of you are thinking, 'Oh He's one of those gay guys who only listens to pop music. Which is wrong. I love every single kind of music, including country and rap which are the two most hated genres in music. You always see someone 'I love all music except for country and rap' But I say, why limit yourself? What if your new favorite song is a country song but you're too biased to give it a chance. I don't believe in limiting myself in anything.

My favorite types of food: Chinese, Italian, Mexican, and Cooked.

My favorite foods: Blueberries and Pretzels

The six things I could never do without

My Friends and Family

My Guitar (His name is Elliot)

My Ipod (Her name is Elenore Perry)

My Job (It's name is Bitch Face)

My Computer (His name is Basil Frankenstern)

And Hope

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My future and my place in the world. New ideas for songs and how to get people to laugh. Randomness. Just the usual....

On a typical Friday night I am

Either out with my friends, or sleeping because I have to get up early the next morning.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

My philosophy about love is taken from my favorite song of all time, 'Love Is A Battlefield' I always sing it to myself before I go on a date and it calms me down.

You should message me if

If you like texting random song lyrics and reading good old fashioned mystery novels. If you like music or creating music, and you like the shape of tennis rackets. Most importantly, if you'll respond