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34 M Roselle, IL

My Details

Last Online
Aug 4
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
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Hello, my name is Tom and yes, I admit it, I am the result of a really bad decision my parents made over 34 years ago. After having 2 sons, they thought they could will their way to having a daughter and were punished with me… and my twin brother. Thankfully, they didn't hold this against me by making me wear dresses as a child or name me Sue (Johnny Cash anyone...).

I grew up in a small town in Wisconsin, so I am very much grounded in small town values that center around family and church. I am very down to earth and sincere. I was raised to be respectful and to use manners and still act that way today.

I’m a fun and honest guy with a good job that I enjoy. I’m pretty motivated, which has helped me to be successful in my career. I enjoy friendly competition; whether in business, playing sports, or making ridiculous bets with friends.

I am at a great place in my life and I'm looking for somebody to share that with. Hopefully you will be that person!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an Operations Manager for a finance company. I know, I know. It's really exciting stuff...

Outside of work, I am just trying to be a better son, brother and friend to those I care about.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything I do... It's really quite amazing :-)

Seriously, I believe everything worth doing deserves your best effort. I do tend to be pretty good at most things I do, but it is more a product of hard work than natrual ability.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am really down to earth. People see my true self immediately. I am comforatable with who I am and don't try to pretend I'm to be somthing I'm not.

Physically, people tend to think I'm very serious or mad because of my normal expression. Apparently, that's how I was built, but it couldn't be further from the truth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I tend to gravitate to non-fiction books about athletes or leaders. No Easy Day and Lone Survivor were recent books I finished that I really enjoyed.

I listen to nearly all types of music. I seem to be listening more and more to country, except when I am working out.

I live by the DVR. Who needs commercials, anyway. A few of my favorite shows are Modern Family, Big Bang Theory and Shark Tank.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cheese and beer (I am a cheesehead, after all)
Football and Hockey
A reason to laugh and have fun
Did I say cheese and beer???
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I am going to corrupt my nieces and nephews like every good uncle should do :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, traveling to visit family or relaxing at home unwinding from another week of work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't think I'm ready to go there quite yet...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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I could say if you want a genuine guy who loves to have a good time, but then I would be like every other guy on here...

You should message me if you're looking for a guy who doesn't hold anything back. Who loves the challenges life brings and is passionate about those people in his life that are special to him - possibly including you...