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Optical_Girl

33 F Detroit Lakes, MN

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Guys don't make passes at girls who wear glasses." Let's pretend that is not true, and message me. Glasses are kind of my thing, as you can maybe tell from the screen-name.

I am easy-going (aren't we all?) with a dry sense of humor (I am known for my one-liners.) I can be cynical, but I like to look at life positively, the cynicism is my humor more than anything.

I love spending time with family and friends. I like to be creative, read, and be outside. I love live music and concerts. I like bar trivia, though I am not always very good at it!

I am looking for someone who is comfortable going out for a nice dinner, and equally comfortable sitting on a tailgate at a bonfire. I want someone who makes me laugh. I want someone who can be honest about what they are thinking and feeling and expects the same from me.

I am really independent, and would expect to be in a relationship where I can still maintain my individuality. I am looking to date, and to possibly find someone who could be a long term match.

Though I don't have any kids, I would not have a problem dating someone with kids.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an Optician and Vision Therapist. I work in Fargo, and commute from Detroit Lakes. I've been doing the commute for about 3 years now, and I am getting to the point where I am over it. A move closer to work will hopefully happen in the next year.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Car dancing and car karaoke! I commute, and many an evening on my way home I will be rocking out to pandora. I am sure I am really entertaining to the people I pass and that pass me!

I also think that I am a pretty rockin' aunt and cousin. My niece is under a year old, so she can't really tell me, but I can almost always get a smile. She is a joy, and I love her like crazy. I also have 4 cousins under the age of 11, and I like hanging out with them too!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to get a lot of compliments on my hair. I am a natural blonde, but about 4 years ago I decided on a whim to go brunette and I don't know if I will ever go back.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These are a few of my favorite things...
Music-Alternative rock, pop/punk. Most of the bands I like no one has ever heard of! But, just in case, Dashboard Confessional, Matt Nathanson, The Cab, The Summer Set, White Tie Affair, etc. Also a renewed interest in country music. So yes, put my Pandora stations on shuffle, and you get quite an interesting mix.

I have recently become a huge NPR fan. I know, so nerdy!

Books-I enjoy reading suspense/mystery novels, historical fiction, and the occasional "chick lit." I read more fiction than non-fiction,

Shows-Castle, Grey's Anatomy, Law and Order SVU, Glee, Blacklist, Nashville, Scandal, The Voice
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, my family, a good night's sleep, my DVR, my close friends, and laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, what's next, what I need to get done at home and at work that week.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Meeting friends for happy hour to celebrate the end of the week and catch up. Or hanging out at home with friends, a bottle of wine, and a movie or games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a klutz. Really, that is not that private, because anyone meeting me learns that pretty much straight off. But it can be a little embarrassing! Well, depending on the situations, a lot embarrassing!
You should message me if
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If you nodded your head or laughed at anything in my profile, please message me! But if you don't have a picture, or your picture is of you, shirtless, in front of your mirror, or if your message just says "hi," I will be honest, I probably won't reply. Put in the effort if you are interested and write me a real message. I am on a dating site because I want to go on dates. Pen pals need not apply. I look forward to hearing from you!