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OptimisticRyan

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Do you spend more money on clothes or food?

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Would you consider having an open relationship (i.e., one where you can see other people)?

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Is it a requirement that you communicate every day with your significant other (via phone, text, in person, whatever)?

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Do you want your partner to be kinkier than you?

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Do you enjoy discussing politics?

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Preferred position: are you a top or a bottom?

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Would you ever consider having a friendship based primarily on sex, with no intentions for love, romance, or long-term commitment?

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Would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date?

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About how long do you want your next relationship to last?

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How important is it to you that a potential partner continues to educate himself/herself as an adult?

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