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OptimisticSane

38 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Native New Yorker! I am an honest guy that expects someone to be honest too, even if it means we won't agree on something. I love a good laugh, I look for smiles first before anything else, and I appreciate people who have a genuine sense of self appreciation.

It would be great to find someone honest, sincere, reliable, and who looks for someone to date with the intentions of seeing where it leads and hopefully it ends up being an amazing experience--whether friends or lovers.

I know what I want and some call that being a hopeless romantic. Instead I believe that true romance does exist and I sometimes wish that I could find you by walking down 7th Avenue on the way home from work or by accidentally sitting next to you on my next flight somewhere and then having a crazy time wherever the destination turns out to be.

All I ask from you is to care about life, to want to live it with a lot of laughs, and to eventually have a family. Be yourself and one last thing...smile.

You are out there, I believe it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Always improving and looking for new, fun things to do.

I'm passionate about what I do for a living and really give 100% to work when I'm working. I'm sort of like that with most things, so for relationships I also give my all and hope that my partner would too.

Right now I'm juggling 2-3 different projects and thinking about how to make a difference in other people's lives.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing.
Listening.
Traveling.
Being there when you need me.
Being quiet when you don't.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love to read and have a few favorite authors.

Enjoy sitcoms, but mostly record them since I like to not be tied down to the couch.

Modern Family, PS3, Walking Around Aimlessly in New York City.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* My close friends.
* My large family (9 brothers, 3 sisters, 2 moms, and my dad)
* My dog, Parker :)
* Aimlessly driving.
* My camera.
* My passport.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Planning.
Family.
Work.
Friends.
Travel.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging with friends somewhere chill or just relaxing at home after a busy week. I'm almost always just looking for something to do and sometimes it means just getting in the car and seeing where the spontaneity leads me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have sensitive pecs and nips? :) The rest is kind of, well, private?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You know what you want and are passionate about your life.

You are genuine.