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42 Washington, DC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:12pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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A simple girl from the Midwest, I find this whole online world of connection curious, compelling and off-putting in equal parts. I avoid bullshit and superficial, cynical people.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a media maker who believes media can be a lot better. I do what I can to shape honest, apolitical, provocative content that makes people stop, think and hopefully change. For the better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting dots, and people, and thinking about tomorrow living today.
The first things people usually notice about me
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An earnestness and positivity that appear entirely wholesome, and don't. Someone who knew me very well after a very short time offered the reflection that it seemed "nothing -- and everything -- could happen on your watch." Which is about right.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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First, a confession: I hate reductive, boring questions like this, although I recognize their utility. So...

Books: Plenty; some of the pivotal and revisited: Rilke (Letters to a Young Poet), Rumi (anything), Jung's Red Book (crazy cool), Machiavelli (don't judge; or, do) with a smattering of Richard Ford, MFK Fisher, Flannery O'Connor.

Movies: way too many but Godfathers I and II, Annie Hall, Network, A Serious Man, Rushmore. I should note, I hated Forrest Gump.

Music: anything that's great quality. Playlists are generally produced between seasons, often include spoken word, and difficult to pigeonhole. I like it that way.

Shows: yes. I should see more than I do.

Food: a passion. Vegan and vegetarian at turns, in the past, I can't deny loving great meat so I don't. Proteins with a happy story always preferred and acquired. Otherwise I'm game to try almost anything, no matter how unfamiliar or textured or scented.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Time to relax - I never have enough and need all I can get.

Good company - I love meeting new people, of all sorts. On the whole I believe people are good and share common, common sense interests. Something to learn from nearly everyone; and the ones who keep teaching, intriguing and delighting are consistently in my orbit.

Travel - and the chance to challenge and remap my perspective through environmental/cultural inspiration, whether NYC, Vegas, a national park, anywhere along that majestic alive Pacific, or requiring a passport.

Cowboy boots - as a general rule I have 3 prs on hand. (But more heels.)

Fine spirits - Love a well-timed drink. From the 12-ingredient alchemistry involving droppers, frothers and a hex; to bubbles (always on hand); to whiskey from a flask; to a refreshing, reliable gin and tonic. All good.

Good food - I love to cook it, eat it and seek it out.

When I get all of these wrapped up in one magical span of time, I generally try to extend and deepen that in whatever ways can be dreamt up.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How fucked up the world is; the many opportunities available to change that reality; how other people constantly surprise me in awesome, positive and often sexy ways; how much fun it is to have fun; and the presence required to enjoy life fully.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing just what I want.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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... may disappoint, or not.
You should message me if
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You're smart, funny and fundamentally positive.