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OptimumAce

24 Buffalo, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), C++ (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
NOTE: I know as a Buffalonian a lot of my matches are in Canada. That's OK! I am more than willing to travel should the need arise :)

My name is A.J. and if you are reading this, congratulations you've managed to take a step beyond the superficiality of a profile picture! :D Let me start by saying this, I'm blunt; I say what I mean and I mean what I say. While this does mean I won't spare your feelings, it also means if I say something nice, I mean it.

I'm a application programmer and an independent game designer. You might be asking yourself what this truly entails. Well, it involves a lot of math, physics, and programming as well as the ability to work well with people. I won't lie though, I get to --and have to-- play a lot of video games. That doesn't mean I'm not an active individual. Quite the contrary, I enjoy getting out when the mood strikes me and when work hasn't sucked the energy from my eternal soul.

So given what you know you can probably derive that I am a nerdy individual. I like to make movie references and stupid jokes that few would actually get. I appreciate wit and sarcasm greatly as it is the first line of defense against the rapidly spreading epidemic of stupid. On top of all that, I play tabletop RPG's quite frequently. For those of you that don't know what I mean, good examples would be D&D, Cthulhu Tech, Exalted, Anima, etc.

I enjoy writing greatly. In my free time i will often write short stories, poems, prose, philosophy --whatever I feel bouncing around the inside of my skull at the time. I intend to write a fiction novel in the near future, and my greatest desire would be to see it published.

Goofy things amuse me: silly jokes, random costume days, late night trips to the grocery store for twelve cans of shaving cream, pranks, etc. I like to laugh when I can, the rest of my life is far too stressful to waste opportunities to smile. Thus, i am prone to participating in goofy things. Hopefully you have a tolerance for the random and silly.

Lastly, if you're only here to hook up with a pretty face, then you might want to pass right on by. I like having a beard and being a gentleman. Ladies most of you are strong and independent individuals, and I like to respect that fact --I consider that gentlemanly (as well as picking up the check from time to time, because I'm a nice goddamn guy! :D )

If what you have gotten to this point and are still interested, send me a message, I would love to talk to you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working full-time at a hospital to program and maintain software, and working part time to develop video games independently That is what takes up the majority of my time, but I still like to get out and do things or at the very least, chill and play some games.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Some would say that I'm good at writing stories and making them interesting. Others would tell you that I'm skilled at video games. Even still others would say that I'm good at making others laugh --if we share the same brand of humor that is.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be particularly loud, people often claim to hear me before they see me. I also talk with my hands a lot, I tend to be very animated.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite books include The 5th Vial by Michael Palmer, the older Clive Cussler novels, and anything Science Fiction.

I have too many "favorite" movies to list them all, but some examples include: Saving Private Ryan, The Matrix, V for Vendetta, Silent Hill, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Shaun of the Dead, Fight Club, etc.

If I had to list my favorite shows they would be: House, Scrubs, Family Guy, Futurama, Supernaural, and Law & Order.

My music preferences are plain and simple: Rock and techno.

Food is another easy one, I like meat --steak especially.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Writing, my family, games, music, intelligent conversation, and humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of my time pondering the world around me and how I may or may not influence it. Much of my time is dedicated to wondering why everyone has to be right all the time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with a group of friends, playing games and having laughs. Sometimes there will be drinking if it had been a long week for us all and we can afford the liquor.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have anxiety issues when it comes to important matters like work projects and my family.
You should message me if
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If you can handle sarcasm, bluntness, random compliments, or sudden bouts of meaningless debate.