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Orbalith

30 M Tempe, AZ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:53am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hi! I'm Ben.

I think our world is completely absurd and beautiful and ridiculous. And while I wouldn't have it any other way, I'm one of those humans with vast internal worlds, and I MAYBE like those a bit more. I spend most of my time making those worlds a reality for others, and this brings me profound fulfillment.

Chalk it up to my thick, inky art-blood; making new things is what keeps my brain on its brain-toes and my heart in the heart-pantheon.

Tags: INTJ, Type 7 Wing 6, Pragma, Agon/Paida
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an artist and designer at my own two-man game development company. Everyday I get to build strange creatures, exotic gardens, and special effects you can feel in the marrow of your face bones. I am a farmer of joy; an endorphin specialist.

In my leisure time I like to write elaborate stories, produce illustrations, kick open doors, yell at movies, sing along with my music, climb trees, and find new ways to organize my physical and mental universes.

I also box and I love it to death.
I’m really good at
Laughing! And making other people laugh. And then laughing with their laughter. Frequently I find myself stuck in the feedback loop of a child-like laughter explosion and then I get euphoric.

I can climb some motherfucking trees.

My bird's eye is strong; I always look at the big picture whether anyone (myself included) wants me to or not.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm dressed in all black, and probably laughing about something. You'll most likely hear me before you see me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: 20,000 Leagues Under The Sea, Oryx & Crake, House Of Leaves, Memnoch The Devil, Life Of Pi, Aztec, The 12th Planet, There's A Boy In The Girl's Bathroom, Masters Of Doom, The Codex Eldar, The Golden Dawn, and videogame instruction manuals.

Music: The big ones are Tool, Air, Brother Ali, The Heavy, Black Moth Super Rainbow, JJ Grey & Mofro, The Glitch Mob, and Black Rebel Motorcycle Club. The rest is at http://www.last.fm/user/Mantolith

Food: I eat Paleo-style. If our nomadic ancestors couldn't hunt it or pick it off a plant, I don't eat it. Unless it's a special occasion.
The six things I could never do without
Creating is the only thing I can't really do without. BUT I WILL PLAY ALONG, OKCUPID.

1. Delicious, morning cubano lattes.
2. Smooth, rich cigars.
3. Deep and engaging games
4. Compelling, vibrant art
5. Joyful and pleasant shisha
6. Soulful, passionate, life-changing music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Myself, my job, art, social dynamics, aliens, the universe, genetics, mythical creatures, tabletop war games, flowers, my family, the human race, delicious food, plant reproduction, and the location of the legendary city of Atlantis.
On a typical Friday night I am
Grubbing somewhere delicious with people I care about and drinking tasty things in interesting places. I love to crash resorts and smoke cigars in their scenic grounds.

On most other nights I am creating. There are entire worlds up in this thing *points to brain* and they're not gonna squeeze themselves out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Thing(s):
1. I have a rampant creative addiction. My projects are my babies.
2. I am the epitome of Jung's introvert (look this up; this does not mean I am not social. I am actually highly and uniquely social).
3. I am 6 to 8 months away from finishing a massive, 2+ year project and I don't have a lot of time.

What this all means is that I'm really good at short-term dating, and that's all I want. I like having highly meaningful experiences with new women, learning about her/myself, and then happily moving on after 4 to 8 weeks of interaction. More if we're a great match! But historically, that's how long these things tend to go.

This makes me particularly compatible with women in more casual phases of their life, and especially compatible with women in polyamorous relationships. Especially since I don't do exclusivity.

I know that's horrifying to a lot of you, and I get it, but I also know I'm worth a little bit of your time.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating
You should message me if
You're of remarkable intelligence.
You have ideas/hobbies you are passionate about.
You're bold enough to own the room.
You consciously change over time.

These things effectively make you fascinating and powerful. Catch my drift here?

BONUS ROUND: You're a brilliant, incredible, warriorbitch of a woman who wants an intellectual and emotional opponent. I wish desperately to be challenged.

DOUBLE BONUS ROUND: You have tattoos, glasses, and put flowers in your hair.