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  • Ages 21-29
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Last online
Nov 24
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In the words of a great American poet, "I am large, I contain multitudes."

Catch me on a given day and you'll catch a different glimpse of me. To define oneself as something static with consistent qualities seems silly because we are always changing. Instead I'll write about what I envision myself becoming, at this point in time.

I want happiness and life in every word to the extent it's absurd. I strive to appreciate beauty in all things and take advantage of all opportunities afforded to me. I hope to remain true to myself at all costs and accept no substitutes. To never lose sight of friends and family and trust my heart doesn't get too cold as I get old.

I want someone in my life who is supportive, caring, reliable, good-natured, dedicated and kind.

I'm looking for someone who I can hike through dark forests with. Someone to scale perilous mountains and fathomless depths with.

And while I've used way too much flourish so far, I actually really enjoy hiking. And driving to remote regions just to explore; a glass of wine in Sonoma on a sunny day; close friends; an affirmative smile from a stranger; a well written line; warm sunsets; a desert sunrise; dreaming of faraway friends; cooking a mouth-watering pantie-melting tomato-sauce; farting and walking away.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
“O me! O life!... of the questions of these recurring;
Of the endless trains of the faithless—of cities fill’d with the foolish;
Of myself forever reproaching myself, (for who more foolish than I, and who more faithless?)
Of eyes that vainly crave the light—of the objects mean—of the struggle ever renew’d;
Of the poor results of all—of the plodding and sordid crowds I see around me;
Of the empty and useless years of the rest—with the rest me intertwined;
The question, O me! so sad, recurring—What good amid these, O me, O life?


That you are here—that life exists, and identity;
That the powerful play goes on, and you will contribute a verse.”
― Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making music, writing, speaking articulately, trying new things, spontaneity, anything involving my hands, riddles.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height and rugged good looks. My lighthearted, warm trusting demeanor, intelligence, my purple aura and tattoos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything Borges or Joyce, Perdido Street Station, Frankenstein, Leaves of Grass, De Profundis, A Short History of Nearly Everything, This is Your Brain on Music, Bukowski, Interview with the Vampire, Enders Game, King Lear, Wordsworth, As I Lay Dying, Murakami, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep, The Iliad & The Odyssey, Hemingway, The Myth of Orpheus

The Jesus & Mary Chain, The XX, The Black Keys, Bob Dylan, The Velvet Underground, Bright Eyes, Cat Power, Explosions in the Sky, Pavement, Otis Redding, My Morning Jacket, Etta James, Hammock, Sam Cooke, Hank Williams, Iron & Wine, Mazzy Star, Jeff Tweedy, Modest Mouse, Ugly Casanova, My Bloody Valentine, Portishead, Radiohead, Tom Waits, Talk Talk, The Temptations, Eric Clapton, Miles Davis, Billie Holiday, Arcade Fire, Broken Social Scene, Cat Stevens, Neil Young, MONO, This Will Destroy You, Sun Kil Moon, Red House Painters, Neutral Milk Hotel, Random Rab, Unkle, Blonde Redhead, Say Hi to Your Mom, Beach House, Home Video, The Afghan Whigs, Gregor Samsa, Yo La Tengo, Dinosaur Jr., Divine Fits, Van Morrison, Brian Jonestown Massacre, Django Reinhardt, Elliot Smith etc.

Vanilla Sky, The Fountain, Big Fish, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Shawshank Redemption, Batman, The Walking Dead, Troll 2, Pulp Fiction, Casablanca, Reservoir Dogs, Inception, Vertigo, Evil Dead, What Dreams May Come, Momento, BeetleJuice, Taxi Driver, The Lion King, Heat, Tombstone, Spaghetti Westerns, Gran Torino, Arrested Development, It's Always Sunny, True Romance, The Twilight Zone, The Professional, V for Vendetta, The Matrix
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Love
2. Laughter
3. Kindness
4. Selflessness
5. Empathy
6. Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drained and depleted from a grueling workweek. When I get home I might bake some delicious pumpkin-ricotta bran-muffins and gorge myself on their high-fiber goodness while pleading into a wet pillow for consolation. Or does that happen after I've consumed a bottle of red wine to try to make the hurting stop? If I'm feeling extra exhausted I might just curl up into fetal position in the darkness of my room and make whale sounds until the neighbors begin screaming "FREE WILLY" and eventually call the police. At which point I ask "Officer, are you alleging I'm hiding a whale inside my apartment?"
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"If you passing meet me and desire to speak to me,
why should you not speak to me?
And why should I not speak to you?"