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39 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:45pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Rather not say
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English, Chinese, Spanish

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My self-summary
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READ FIRST: Please refrain from emailing me if all you want is casual sex/dating and playing games (and I don't mean Monopoly either).

If you are a smoker/drug user, please do not bother. I am full believer in holistic health and eating right is important. My body is my temple and that means avoiding toxins as much as possible.

Not much of a television watcher and bit of a social butterfly with a genuine personality. Staying home and sitting on my ass is for when I hit the golden years. Sustaining youth is all in the powers of the mind and maintaining an active lifestyle. I'm pretty straight forward person who is not afraid to speak my mind when needed.

Also, if you are a close minded individual..I am not interested. I value people who are not judgmental, believes in positive thinking and energy (no debby downer BS). with all that outta the way, its always great to hear from the outside world. Thanks and have a great day! =)
What I’m doing with my life
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Blessed to have the following... emotionally stable, healthy, no silly shenanigans to the table, financially independent, has her education, rational thinker and communicator..(maybe YOU could be on this list). Life is a winding road...just gotta go with it at times and take something positive-how ever small or big. I also can laugh at myself with all of the goofy/silly sides that comes out at times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Calling out others BS and those that have not figured out who they are and what they want from life or a partner. If you fall into those category, don't bother hitting me up on here. So please do both of us a favor and come correct/honest about yourself. Otherwise, be ready/prepared to hear some honest feedback....but with a smile. =]
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'll leave that open for feedback.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I <3 Music of things that I truly connect with. Here's a taste of various artists that I like which will give you an idea of my music style: Hot Chip, Mark Knight, Allen Stone, Miguel Migs, Kaskade, Mana, Marc Anthony, Anthony Hamilton, Maxwell, Pink, Kelly Clarkson, Avance, Aventura, Juan Luis Guerra, Janelle Monáe, Taylor Swift, Sugar Land, deadmau5, The Roots, Lupe Fiasco, James Morrison, Alabama Shakes, Tony Bennett, Blue October, Muse. (Yes..I am all over the board)

Movies: Almost any that has Will Farrell in it. Office Space, Lord Of Rings, Matrix, James Bond (Daniel Craig), Waiting, Knocked Up, Django, Swingers, Bridesmaid, Ted, Zombieland, This is the End, Ip Man series, Kung Fu Hustle, Batman Series (Christian Bale), Brown Sugar, Lost In Translation, Parenthood (Steve Martin), Star Wars, Kick Ass, Monster House, Shrek, Transformers, Dodgeball, Zoolander, Think Like a Man, Happy Gilmore, Hot Tub Time Machine. What can I say, I like to laugh!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, music, good health, phone, laughter, dancing, travel, honesty, passport, sunshine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Why we live in a society that's all about ME..ME..ME?!
- Great read for all males out there:
- What happened to chivalry?
- Vulnerability?
-Others lacking self awareness and accountability for their words/actions.
- Following through on promises?
- What about giving back to those less fortunate (seniors, animals etc.)?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and social events, checking out restaurants/food, dancing(Latin music to Salsa, Merengue, Bachata, House, Hip Hop or to any other grooves) -tennis, archery, entry level golfing/soccer. Willing to try most sports or anything for shits n giggles...nothing typical here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Isn't this an Oxymoron?
You should message me if
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- Honest about who you are.
- Not pyscho!
- Doesn't shy away from the idea of 'serious' relationship.
- You like what you have read about me so far.