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27 F Mountain View, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 16
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Christianity, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an androgynous gal looking for androgynous gals. Androgyny is my only firm criterion for attraction, actually, and it can take a lot of forms. I identify as a fabulous butch (think La Roux, not Ellen) and adore men's accessories, especially if they come in pink.

I'm in a long-term polyamorous relationship with my best and oldest friend electroncowboy, so I guess getting along with him is a pretty important criterion, too! We love meeting new people for games or hanging out or, you know, whatever ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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By day, I'm an arborist (tree scientist), and am currently doing consulting work. I really believe in this stuff, so I'm also active with local urban forestry nonprofit group, and the Parks and Recreation Commission. I'm a sustainability kind of gal, not a tree hugger--trees do some pretty nifty, quantifiable things for people, if they're managed properly.

And now for something completely different: I'm a classically trained contralto, and I hope to start singing in public again soon. I used to sing in professional choirs and do church gigs, and only stopped because I got a day job with overly long hours. I love early music (Baroque and older) and new music (1900 and newer), and I miss singing both.

And just for an extra element of randomness, I discovered freestyle wrestling about a year ago. It's absolute poetry, feeling how much power is in your own body, and learning to use it. Not in a meathead-y way, though; it's about realizing your potential, and your limitations along with it.
I’m really good at
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Singing, talking about trees, math, cooking, lifting heavy stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
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My (sometimes inappropriately) dry sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Games - Sentinels of the Multiverse,Race for the Galaxy, Dungeons and Dragons

Books - Dune, Half the Sky, Modus Novus

Movies - Moon, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Cannibal the Musical

Shows - Star Trek: The Next Generation and Voyager; South Park; Firefly

Music - Lady Gaga, Hildegard von Bingen, John Adams

Food - blue cheese, very dark chocolate, Zinfandel
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A pitch pipe
2. My sparkly pink polyhedral dice
3. Earplugs
4. A gas stove
5. My bike
6. Neckties
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Gender equality
Double-leg takedowns
The number 256 (no idea why!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending quality time with friends--eating good food, playing games, dancing, or just talking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I find periods hilarious. Come on, that's totally funny!
You should message me if
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You want a close friend who may become a partner as well. It's a blurry line for me anyway!