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27 Mountain View, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 24, 2014
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Christianity, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an androgynous gal looking for other androgynous people. Androgyny is my only firm criterion for attraction, and it can take a lot of forms. At the moment, I identify as more femme than butch, but that's subject to change, depending on which section has cuter clothes this season.

I'm in a long-term polyamorous relationship with my best and oldest friend electroncowboy, so I guess getting along with him is a pretty important criterion, too! We love meeting new people for games or hanging out or, you know, whatever ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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By day, I'm a consulting arborist (tree scientist). I really believe in this stuff, so by night, I'm active in urban forestry nonprofits and local government. I'm a sustainability kind of gal, not a tree hugger--trees do some pretty nifty, quantifiable things for communities, if they're managed properly, but if not, they can create massive problems.

And now for something completely different: I'm a classically trained contralto, and I hope to start singing in public again soon. I used to sing in professional choirs and do church gigs, and only stopped because I got a day job with overly long hours. I love early music (Baroque and older) and new music (20th century and newer), and I miss singing both.

And just for an extra element of randomness, I discovered freestyle wrestling about a year ago. It's absolute poetry, feeling how much power is in your own body, and learning to use it. Not in a meathead-y way, though; it's about realizing your physical potential, and your limitations along with it.
I’m really good at
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Singing, talking about trees, math, cooking, lifting heavy stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
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My dry sense of humor, and loud sense of style
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Games - Sentinels of the Multiverse, Race for the Galaxy, Dungeons and Dragons

Books - Dune, Half the Sky, The Trees Among Us

Movies - Moon, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Cannibal the Musical

Shows - Star Trek: The Next Generation and Voyager; South Park; Firefly

Music - Lady Gaga, Hildegard von Bingen, Kill the Noise

Food - refried beans, very dark chocolate, Belgian-style beers
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A pitch pipe
2. Sparkly pink polyhedral dice
3. Earplugs
4. A gas stove
5. My journals
6. Neckties
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sustainability and social inequality
Double-leg takedowns
The number 256 (no idea why!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending quality time with friends--eating good food, playing games, or just conversing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I find periods hilarious. Come on, that's totally funny!
You should message me if
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You want a close friend who may become a partner as well. As far as I'm concerned, there's not much of a difference!