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46 • M • San Jose, CA
I’m looking for
- Women who like men
- Ages 30–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Online now!
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegan
- Buddhism, but not too serious about it
- Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Science / Engineering
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
That I can seem a little nervous at first until I get to know you.
Some favorite writers: Paul Auster, Margaret Atwood, Haruki Murakami, Lydia Davis, Jonathan Ames, Kurt Vonnegut, James Tate, Nicholson Baker, Russell Hoban, Georges Perec. Also Borges, Calvino, Beckett, Kafka, Sebald, Bernhard and their ilk (which makes me sound very dark and serious, but I'm usually not).
Mostly I listen to Pandora or whatever my iPhone's shuffle serves up. That's dominated at the moment by Leonard Cohen, Philip Glass, 80's/90's alternative/electronic/industrial music, Radiohead, The Knife, Brian Eno, Max Richter, LCD Soundsystem, Depeche Mode, Judge John Hodgman, Arvo Part, F*ck Buttons.
TV: Stewart/Colbert, Dexter, Homeland, Twin Peaks, Flight of the Conchords, The Prisoner.
Movies: some favorites are indie/foreign films, Muppets, Gattaca, Until the End of the World.
Food: plant-based, mostly vegan. Doubling down on diet and fitness lately and dropping some pounds.
I sometimes give a profile 5 stars if it makes me laugh or strikes me as unusually well-written, even though we might not be compatible/nearby. I'm not trying to be creepy. (Or I do it because I do think we're compatible and you're awesome and I will email you later when I have more time.)
You want to wander through a museum or nature trail and make awkward witty conversation.
You can introduce me to some new electronic or industrial music that's not crap.
You want to talk books.
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