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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45-65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 6:21pm
5' 11" (1.80m)
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Russian (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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You'll never meet anyone quite like me (and that's a good thing). I have been told before that I have one of the nicest temperments that they've ever seen. I thought that was one of the nicest compliments that I have ever received. However being a nice guy does not mean that I am naive or a pushover. I am also very driven (and successful) by my work and very good at what I do.

Right now I am looking for a friend to begin with. I am in no particular hurry to rush things but believe that some things are meant to be. I am hoping for magic. I would love to fall in love.

My passions are travel, history, music and the ocean. I would eventually like to visit Europe, Japan and Australia. I like to go out and do things but I also have a lot of homebody in me. I am very good at giving world class massages. I also love to walk or hike. I admire all types of women and appreciate the understated strength that I have come to appreciate in women. I am a gentlemen (I was raised that way)(and there are some of us left in the world) and I'm proud that my sons have grown up to be gentlemen. My boys are my pride and joy and family is extremely important to me.

This website does not have a marital status for "separated" but that is my current status. I moved out three years ago and the status will be changing to divorce in the near future.

I have been told that my eyes look like the wheels are always turning behind them. The personality test said that I was an individualist and that agrees with what I have been told ever since I was young. I am also a leader in my business and known for my integrity.

If you would like to get to know me better, I would to love to hear from you.

I am Considerate, Positive, and Forward Looking
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently I am learning and growing and getting used to the constant change in my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
observing ... seeing the subtle movements around us ... empathizing with others ... trying to find solutions .... seeing things differently ... being a friend .... having a steady even temperment
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I asked a first date this and she said "I noticed you were handsome". I thought that was very nice, but looks are in the eye of the beholder.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Let's see - my favotite authors include Tony Hillerman mysteries, most everything by Stephen King. My guilty pleasure here is Science Fiction.

With movies, I love comedies - Mel Brooks, Monty Python, Fawlty Towers and many others. I also love Action movies, musicals and Anime.

Music - I love a variety of music, but the best era ever for music was between 1964 and 1974. The energy and pure creativity has been unmatched since. You can find The Beatles, The Who, Led Zep and many others on my Ipod. Classical, folk , rhythm and blues can also be heard. My guilty pleasure in music are novelty records - Weird Al, Dr. Demento, etc.

I love all kinds of food, except for the super-spicy. I am very easy to please in this department.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my eldest son
my youngest son
my writing
my work (how else could i live)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about whats ahead optimistically.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I could be visiting my son ... or a friend ... or out for the evening. I might even be working late but that wouldn't be fun.
You should message me if
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you want to completely waste your time.... lol
or ......
If you want to meet a great guy with a balanced life and a lot of positive attributes.