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48 M Forest Hills, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:54am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Speaking about oneself can feel a little bit like writing that school essay on “how I spent my summer vacation” – you wonder if you’ll sound truthful or interesting. So, I'll tread cautiously here and stick to just the facts.

I'm a Renaissance-type person in terms of my interests – I’m curious about people and life and I’ll try anything new at least once. I enjoy intelligent conversation about world affairs, politics, books, social issues, movies, etc. I'm a classically-trained pianist (though it is not my profession), so I'd like to meet someone who appreciates music, though it's not absolutely mandatory. I get up and dance when the opportunity arises, I enjoy a good bottle of wine shared with friends; I love to cook and experiment in the kitchen and entertain guests; I enjoy traveling and would love to find someone that shares such a passion . I’m fluent in English, Spanish, Italian., and French (And I’m totally fine if you speak only one or five languages. I don’t discriminate!)

I like sports, especially soccer. But don't get me wrong, I'd much rather be reading a book or having a great conversation than watching Monday night football. I enjoy tennis, skiing, ice-skating, and hiking. I practiced martial arts for many years and would love to get back into it, although, like everything else, if one wants to be good at something, it requires effort, focus and dedication.

I'm a pretty fit guy and I take care of myself. To me, health and well-being are a life-long quest. I don’t expect perfection (I am not perfect!), but I appreciate women who take care of themselves.

I'm interested in meeting someone who is also seeking a sincere relationship based on trust, companionship, happiness and mutually shared experiences. Sometimes I worry how a text message comes across to someone I haven’t had an opportunity to get to know (that whole reading into tone thing), but you probably feel the same. I want to know as much as possible about you, and I hope you want to know as much as possible about me. Overall, I'd love it if your passion for whatever it is that inspires you shines through you when we speak and meet, and I hope you value intelligent conversation, like to laugh, and are kind to others.
What I’m doing with my life
I’m trying to live life to the fullest.
I’m really good at
Listening, writing, giving practical advice, cooking, remodeling/renovating/house projects, making guests laugh (though occasionally I make a joke that doesn’t land – forgive me – hopefully you will point them out to me.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hard to list only a few. As for literature, I have read from the classics to the contemporaries. I have a fondness for Hesse, Garcia Marquez, Allende, Paz, Hemingway, Salinger, Proust, Flaubert, and Mann. I also enjoy historical and political novels, as well as good crime thrillers. I’ve read the Dragon Tattoo trilogy, though I may not make it to James Patterson books or Fifty Shades of Grey (but it’s great if you did). My interest in movies mirrors my varied literary interests. I like Almodovar, Polansky (setting aside his dark side), Coppola, Scorsese, Campanella, the Coen Brothers, Kapur, etc. As for music, my interests expand four centuries from Bach and before to Adele. I like Cat Stevens, Bob Dylan, and many ‘70s and ‘80s bands, but I'm also getting into the current ones. I'm passionate about foreign singers from all corners of the world, from the Ivory Coast to Iceland. I will eat any cuisine. I have a diverse palette!
The six things I could never do without
Pandora, NPR, my piano, red wine, coffee, laughter, intelligent conversation. Woops. That's seven.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to improve things that affect our daily lives. (Yes, sometimes this just means I think of things that should be invented to make life easier. Admittedly, not all of these are genius or practical.) I want to make the most of my life and each and every day. I want to be efficient with my time and get more accomplished, and to spend time with good people, whether that’s friends, my family, or the right relationship. I’m constantly trying to better myself, asking if I am doing everything I can to be the best possible person and accomplish my goals.
On a typical Friday night I am
Meeting friends for a couple of drinks or dinner, trying out a new recipe, watching a good news story, enjoying a decent bottle of wine with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hello! That’s private. So if I write it here, it’s no longer private. Doesn’t that defeat the purpose?
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You’re sexy and spontaneous, and I’m never sure if that’s because your smile is so great and you’re confident, or because your laughter is so contagious. You love a man who makes jokes, but is direct and honest with his feelings. You enjoy music, you’re a great listener and caring, and you appreciate my old-fashioned manners, loyalty and reliability that complement my willingness to meet new people and try new things.