Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a very serious self-directed person who loves not being
serious. Got that? I find that every time I try to define myself
with any type of parameters, I am misunderstood. I am the
traditional, happy-at-home, girl next door on one hand, and an
open-minded adventurous risk-taker on the other. I am not a
thrill-seeker, but I find thrill in everyday things.
I am very into nutrition and staying fit, but far from perfect. If
you like hiking or martial arts, that would be very cool. I am
self-motivated and fine with being a loner, but it would be nice to
have company. If I do get your ear, be ready to talk. I love a good
intellectual conversation as much as I love not talking and just
watching something beautiful (or interesting) together. I am not
hard to please, but do require attention. In fact, my kids will
require that too. If you are a kid at heart, I can provide the
playground with some kids to go with it!
I am divorced with no particular drama following me as a result. I
find people looking for drama-free people, however, are a bit
funny. Don't we all have something? Let's be real. Anyway, for me,
getting homework done is drama; but, there is no relationship or
emotional drama going on. I am settled and self-sufficient, just
wanting to have someone to share life's moments with.
I have traveled to Europe, South America, Africa, and most states
(and a few islands) in the US. There are lots of stories to share.
Traveling is a good thing that I think everyone should do, if for
no other reason than to open their eyes. At this point in my life,
I don't need any exotic adventure to keep me satisfied. I could
find adventure anywhere.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an Internet Marketing professional. I spend part of my day at
home so I can be everything my two kids need me to be. Well, that's
the goal anyway!
On the side, I am quietly looking for the man of my dreams.
Defining him would be as dangerous as defining myself. I don't like
predefined boxes. I can find something amazing in most people. The
key is connection beyond what can be verbalized. A fit man is my
vision as being fit starts with a state of mind. If our minds are
in the same place, the rest should naturally follow.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am great at finding other people's typos! I can make people laugh
on occasion too. If it's a really good day, I can make the person
who made the typo laugh...but that can be a challenge.
Actually, my best natural ability is writing. Thus, the typo thing
kind of just happens.
I am also super-organized. I can't think without organization.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose they notice that I move at the speed of light. I don't
waste a lot of time.
My face is somehow memorable. I am guessing it is something about
the hair and glasses. I never really figured it out.
After getting to know me, people notice that I am different than
what they expected. I wear glasses, but don't read all the time. I
look sweet and innocent, but have lived a full life and know how to
stand my ground. I dress and act like the professional that I am,
but can land a side-kick without spilling my tea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like a good book, but rarely get a chance to read one. I am more
likely to take a dance break with my kids and the electronic
keyboard. If I go out without the kids, improv is a typical
destination. Food is good. I am a bit of a natural foods junky. I
love healthy stuff! Sadly, I have multiple food allergies that are
quite limiting. A man who cooks has points in his favor
I don't think that technology should invade every inch of a
person's social and creative space. My priorities are on real
life...my OWN real life. I love going to the theater and seeing
films on the big screen.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - My kids
2 - Love
3 - Quality Food
4 - Fresh Air
5 - Exercise
6 - Attention
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Let me think...haven't had time for that lately.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since I am a single mom, Friday nights usually involve my kids. I
am not routine-bound, but you might just find us at the $2 movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Leave me alone with some high-quality natural allergy-friendly
cookies and they will be GONE!
Other than that, I keep private things private in public places.
Get to know me and I'm an open book.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're cool and kind, it can't hurt to send me a note. Race is
not important. Brilliance is a plus! Don't expect a response if you
do not have a photo in your profile.
If drinking beer with the boys is the highlight of your life...or
there is an ab shot in your profile, keep looking.
And, don't expect a response if you're 23 or drive a Harley. It's
all good, but a metro man my own age would be a better fit.
Most of all, I am hoping to speak with open-minded people, true
seekers, people who are passionate about something that really
matters in the big picture.
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