I’m an INTJ (maybe an E on a good day), and am an open-minded, flexible and strategic problem-solver. An introvert by nature, I can be reserved when first meeting people or in unfamiliar situations. But if the chemistry is right, I’ll thrive on your positive energy and reflect it right back.
And I’m unconventional, with little use for traditions or social norms that don’t make sense to me (a common INTJ trait, I understand). In relationships, that’s translated into my being accepting of all of their forms, from traditional to open, and variations in between.
I have a passion for knowledge and learning. I’m fairly geeky, being into video games and general computer nerdery, music, cooking (love Good Eats!). Lest you think that I’m all cerebral, I’m also into health and fitness and work out regularly, and enjoy biking and swimming. That said I am bored to tears by watching TV sports, aside from Ninja Warrior. And I’ve started doing my own spirits infusions – I’ve done good vanilla rum, lime infused tequila, and the apple cinnamon rum is a hit.
In my relationships, friendly and particularly romantic, I’m supporting and encouraging. I’m on a positive path in life, with a great career. Yet I also have an edgy side (obvious only when I want to reveal it) and I’m always looking to find boundaries and gently nudge them, my own and my partner’s.
And I have a darker aesthetic, with an allergy to cutesy or vapidly popular. My sense of humor is witty, often dry and sarcastic, and definitely twisted; I think evil but don't act on it. Often. ;)