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42 M Decatur, GA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 9:18pm
Black, Indian, White, Other
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm an actor artist & poet(learning to play the bass, and currently composing for a film I'm in the progress or writing)- I'm Very simple. ENFP for what it's worth.
While I do love the ladies, man. I would not consider myself a ladies man. While I do like to play the field, I am far from a player. My name is not Milton Bradley, and I do not play... well maybe chess, and the like.... but don't I don't play games with people. Nor do I take a bullshit sandwich and smile thankfully for the privilege.

I typically will give you exactly what you need unless you ask for something else:

If you say let's just be friends, you shouldn't be upset that that is all you get. Don't get boggled by the fact that I'm paying you attention, and treating you like I care- It's because I do. I care about most people, and treat them well (I even treat people whom I don't like, well..or at least cordially....unless it's proven that they prefer to be treated like the assholes that they are- then I will oblige then nix them from my hemisphere). DON'T get scared away, and or confuse it with love. I'm not one to parse words, or run from my emotions. I will tell you that I love you when I do, and even still understanding degrees of love, will differentiate between love, and IN-LOVE. But I guess it's a moot point, as the woman who I'll stay with into infinity, will get me infinitely, and I her(while still leaving room for surprise and growth).

But if you say, "let's see where this goes"(or something in that vein), we'll follow it to it's conclusion however long that is, whatever it is. If it's love, or friendship (though I do love my friends, who are mostly women, and a handful of guys... anyone with a problem with that... oh! there ya go. Thanks for stopping by anyway), it will find it's way of its own accord.

I am an excellent judge of character. It doesn't take me long to suss people out. On the odd occasion I've been fooled, I was merely blinded by their potential that they didn't feel the need to live up to. Or they decided the Darkside was where they felt at home. Granted we all have a dark side, but I think of it more as a tool than a steady-state. While we're on this (or rather, I am... on about this), my Jedi powers will always trump your Sith (and yes, I am a total geek, and if you can't handle that, and are not moved by my handsome debonaire-oy! don't take me too seriously I don't...oh! there ya go... Aaaaand another handful gone. Sweet.), and I can ALWAYS (usually) spot a lie. I will at the very least remember it long after the teller's forgotten, but probably won't call anyone on it until they've hit third strike, and I've confirmed it's lack veracity ( oh! I hope I lost another couple there). Tell me the truth, even if I don't like it. I'll be pissed, but will forgive it much sooner than a lie.

I'm not unwavering, but I don't see the point in being universally agreeable. I'm already multifaceted and somewhat a square peg... well, more like a oblong (loved that show) polygonal peg. The woman I'm looking for, like me, can't be quantified by outward presentation.. I'm an just as comfortable in a Gala as I am in a dive bar (though I do prefer the latter). I'm a city boy with urban flare, but I'm also a bit granola crunchy spirit that loves the lure of nature (anyone want to come climb a mountain? oop! there goes another. See ya!). I've minted the moniker HiPPIE-MOD, as a description of me. I am intrinsically a gregarious misanthrope. While I'm comfortable in the company of many, I prefer the company of far fewer, so not interested in pleasing everyone, and being universally palatable.

I am actually quite open to improvement though. I wouldn't mind achieving Bodhisattva. I don't work out all the time(push-ups & core work as an almost daily wake-up routine... well, almost... my cardio needs work though), but I like to stay healthy and fit. My mental health, and strength are of equal importance to me... which is to say VERY. The woman who fits me best would have to be on the same page.

Most importantly: I am a very old and wizened child. I walk with Tao in mind, in that I am and am not. There is more, which you'll have to find out... or not.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an actor, artist & poet.
Currently writing a feature film based (finished now )on a short story I wrote which itself was based on historical figures in my family tree few know of, unless you're Jamaican.

Now currently working on a future iteration of the Maroon story which may or may not turn out to be a graphic novel, and an animated series of adventures in the original timeline. See some pics.

Teaching myself the bass to compose music for the feature I'm creating(update Dec 2013) I've actually now played out live, twice already! An Amazing feeling.
Link to One such even at Java Monkey:

Luckt STray playing one of my songs... it's a work in progress:
I’m really good at
Massage, Drawing, Acting, KISSING, being me(& being someone else when I'm in front of a camera or on stage), being a good judge character.. I was told to add salsa, even though I think my talent is likened to an idiot savant
The first things people usually notice about me
My bumm, my eyes, my personality... & My hair, my lips
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Young Zaphod Plays it Safe
Skinny Legs and All
The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul
Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency
The Martian Chronicles
Fierce Invalids Home From Hot climates
Still Life with Woodpecker
Dharma Bums
Welcome to the Monkey House
So Long, and Thanks for ALL The Fish
The Restaurant at the.End of the Universe
Jitterbug Perfume
1984 - George Orwell
The Dark Tower Series
Confederacy of Dunces
The Alchemist
It's easier if I just list some of my fav directors: Terry Gilliam, David Lynch, Tim Burton, Tarantino.. Also love Delicatesan, Alien, Star Wars, City of Lost Children, Amelie, Star Trek
Dr. WHO, Adult Swim, Californication, Game of Thrones,.Battlestar Galactica, Lost, Fringe, Heroes, Castle, Modern Family, 30 Rock, Bones, Eureka, Walking Dead, Family Guy a few others.
Music I miss KCRW(the radio station)! LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE: Massive Attack, Thievery Corp, Portishead,j*Davey's "queen of wonderland", dig old school punk rock, the Beatles, Mos Def, Bob Marley (not last or least)..long azz list
The six things I could never do without
Music (playin in my head & elsewhere)
Pen & paper (to write & draw)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The universe and it's interconnectedness.
& Often:
I long for a kiss like crack, and hooked like that.
I long for it to linger in my brain and stain my thoughts, hungry for just another taste- all other endeavors wasting time til the next fix.
I know it sounds sick so wrapped up in it no matter how you spin it. Lost up in it, well deep in it. The full swell of it. Lips locked, unquelled in the spell of pregnant passion (for it)- and words are all silly lacking equivalent potency.
The kiss a singularity. The vastness of space condensed into a supple wet point within which everything falls into infinitely into...

I also often think about why my myriad super powers only work in dreams..
On a typical Friday night I am
It depends on my mood. In L.A. I preferred going out on the weekdays to avoid the throngs of assholes & that's when the more interesting underground events were going down. In ATL? ...? IF THERE'S AN UNDERGROUND I'LL FIND IT
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a lesbian on the inside?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're an amazing, intuitive human being.
If you don't mind that I have a new kid.. but no baby mama drama.
I helped someone who wanted a child and it is one of the best decisions I've made in my life.