50 Campbell, CA
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My self-summary
I am fun loving and easy going. I have a very curious mind and it has gotten me into all sorts of interesting adventures. I love long intimate rambly conversations on all kinds of topics some of which include movies, music, philosophy,poetry,and psychology.. I have a fetish for yes.

I enjoy 5 rhythms & Ecstatic dance, Bawdy Storytelling, attending HAI (Human Awareness Institute) workshops and being part of that community, learning to sail, live theater, live music of all sorts, Mark Groups and More, nature walking, playing at the beach, playing my Djembe drum, reading, riding my bike, snorkeling, yoga, walking, wandering around art Galleries and museums, and writing is great too.

I am Adventurous, Passionate, open minded, and Honest. I am interested in and appreciate personal growth. I know a lot about the ins and outs of polyamorous relationships.

I just saw this in someone's profile and it resonates with me so much that I am including it here." Kissing is more than an art form. It is the wet kindling that somehow can spark an inferno... "

If I were to describe my self as a song , the song would be Jason Mraz Living in the Moment.
What I’m doing with my life
I am 4 years and 6 months into recovering from cancer and I am continuing to create abundance, deep connections, happiness, joy, and passion in my life. I am very committed to being fully present and to fully experiencing every moment of life.

I am a marriage Family therapist intern (MFTi). Career wise I finished my 3 thousand hours of clinically supervised hours for my internship. I am looking forward to getting my license. I found a wonderful office, and I am doing the ground work to start a private practice. I am completely excited about that.

I own my own home and I am continuing to learn about being a home owner I am also working on finishing the books I am writing. I completely adore attending 5 rhythms ecstatic dance. I love my yoga class. I am really enjoying continuing to explore and grow my daily spiritual practice. I am continuing to create more mindful Joyous abandon in my life.
I’m really good at
Listening, being open minded, having fun, being the first person to laugh out loud when something is funny, empowering and connecting with people, giving long leisurely hugs. I am really really good at lovingly encouraging my friends and others to find their boundaries and to look over the edge into their big growth places. I am fully embracing what it means to be vibrant and alive. My friends would say I am good at being a tremendous flirt.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, that I'm sometimes shy and nearly always confident. My current hair style.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Art: Auguste Rodin, Georgia O'Keeffe, Michelangelo paintings and sculpture, Pierre-Auguste Renoir, Picasso, Salvador Dali, Titian, and Misc others. The Cantor Museum, The De young, The Legion of Honor, The Louvre, The national gallery, The Norton Simon , The Metropolitan Museum of Art NY, The SF Moma, are some of my favourite places to look at art.

Books: Richard Bach, Illusions, The Bridge Across Forever, Jonathan Livingston Seagull. Anything by David Deida, finding God through sex, The way of the superior man, Dear lover. All kinds of Psychology and Philosophy books. When it comes to psychology books currently David Richo's work is holding my attention.some favourite David Richo books are, How to be an Adult in Relationships five keys for Mindful Loving, Coming Home to Who You Are Discovering Your Natural Capacity for Love, Integrity, and Compassion, Daring to Trust Opening Ourselves to Real Love and Intimacy. Some other genres and authors I enjoy are, fiction, Dean Koontz, Nora Roberts,Mercedes Lackey, and a bunch of others.

Food wise I am pretty eclectic.

Movies: action, adventure, anime, comedy, romantic comedy, and drama.some examples are Dangerous beauty, Summer Lovers, under the Tuscan Sun, You've Got Mail, When Harry Met Sally , The Fugitive,The Secret life of Arrietty, my neighbour Totoro, and several others.

Music: I enjoy all kinds of music as long as it has soul. Several varieties of Jazz, Boney James, Peter White, Rick Braun, Dave Kozz, Kenny G.. Lots of 80s stuff. Anything by Journey. Some other examples of music I enjoy are Duran Duran, The cranberries, U2, Queen, Billy Joel, REO speed wagon. Cold Play, Ben Folds Five, Gotye, Jason Mraz, Lindsay Stirling,One Republic, Yani. There is lots more modern stuff I appreciate too, Green Day when September ends, and 21 guns are two of my absolute favourites. I appreciate being introduced to new music as well.

Quotes : A friend is one to whom one may pour out all the contents of one's heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away.

“When Body, Mind, and Spirit are united in their instinctive wisdom one finds ones-self at home in every moment expressing ones true nature.” – Mark Moti Zemelman.

Shows I don't watch a huge amount of TV and when I watch: Greys Anatomy, JAG, Law and Order, Mistresses. NCIS, Perception, Rizzoli & Isles, The Big Valley.
The six things I could never do without
Love, quality time with my family, lots of loving touch from head to toe, long leisurely hugs, yoga, dancing, my books about psychology & philosophy, the company of my good friends, and being useful in the world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being love in the world, my family, creating abundance, contributing to making the world a better place, joy, philosophy, pleasure , psychology, relationships, responsible hedonism, self growth. What is the next fun and meaningful activity with family, friends, and other loved ones.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home with my family,out with friends , off at a workshop of some kind, or on a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am enjoying my exploration of creating joy, happiness, abundance and passion. I am stretching and exploring life at my edges. I really am available for a really incredible relationship. Lastly lavender is my favorite flavor ice cream.
You should message me if
You are all or some of the following: You're a person who values genuineness, authenticity and transparency. You're someone I can spend time with and be all of myself as much of the time as possible. Someone who enjoys a great conversation over a cup of coffee or Chai. You're someone who is fully present. You can relate to using relationship for personal and spiritual growth. You're interested in co-creating a relationship that is unique and satisfying. You're someone who is looking for a warm caring friendship for fun, new adventures and possibly more. Someone who is Looking for honesty, sincerity, and someone to giggle with. You're looking for a loving, connected, genuine, authentic, explore all kinds of experiences, laugh a lot, talk about it all, hot sexy passionate friendship/ lover-ship. That supports and encourages each of us to be all that we are capable of inside and out side of the relationship.