I am a marriage Family therapist intern (MFTi). I enjoy 5 rhythms Ecstatic dance, attending (HAI) workshops and being part of that community, live theater, live music of all sorts, Mark Groups and More, nature walking, playing at the beach, playing my Djembe drum, reading, riding my bike, snorkeling, yoga, walking, and writing is great too. I love long intimate rambly conversations on all kinds of topics some of which include psychology, philosophy, and music. I am fun loving and easy going. I have a very curious mind and it has gotten me into all sorts of interesting adventures.

I am Adventurous, Passionate, open minded, and Honest. I am interested in and appreciate personal growth.

I just saw this in someone's profile and it resonates with me so much that I am including it here." Kissing is more than an art form. It is the wet kindling that somehow can spark an inferno... "

A friend is one to whom one may pour out all the contents of one's heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away.

If I were to describe my self as a song , the song would be Jason Mraz Living in the Moment.

I am currently creating more abundance, happiness, joy, and passion in my life,while continuing to recover from Cancer. My hair grew back curly after being bald. Which is a completely new look hair wise. So far it has been great. My chemo port was recently removed and I no longer have any physical restrictions about activities I can and can not do because of the port. I am truly excited about all the possibilities. Because of complications during my treatment for cancer I know what happens after death. As a result I am very committed to being fully present and to fully experiencing every moment of life.

I own my own home and I am continuing to learn about being a homeowner. I just completed my 3 thousand hours of clinically supervised hours for my internship. Once they are approved by the Board of Behavioral Science , I will get to sit for license exams. I am looking forward to getting my license and starting a private practice. Now I get to look for an office. I am also working on finishing the books I am writing. I am continuing to create more mindful Joyous abandon in my life. I am enjoying my walking shoes. I resumed attending 5 rhythms ecstatic dance. I have been having a great time at my yoga class. I am looking for a recommendation for a new yoga studio near Campbell or San Jose. I am also looking for a yoga buddy. At some point hopefully soon I will be replacing my very beat up glasses. I am really enjoying continuing to explore and grow my daily spiritual practice. I know a lot about the ins and outs of polyamorous relationships.

Listening, being open minded, having fun, being the first person to laugh out loud when something is funny, empowering and connecting with people, giving long leisurely hugs. I am really really good at lovingly encouraging my friends and others to find their boundaries and to look over the edge into their big growth places. I am fully embracing what it means to be vibrant and alive. My friends would say I am good at being a tremendous flirt.

My smile, that I'm sometimes shy and nearly always confident. My current hair style. Two people recently said that I look just like my photos.

Books: Richard Bach, Illusions, The Bridge Across Forever, Jonathan Livingston Seagull. Anything by David Deida, finding God through sex, The way of the superior man, Dear lover. All kinds of Psychology and Philosophy books. When it comes to psychology books currently David Richo's work is holding my attention.some favorite David Richo books are, How to be an Adult in Relationships five keys for Mindful Loving, Coming Home to Who You Are Discovering Your Natural Capacity for Love, Integrity, and Compassion, Daring to Trust Opening Ourselves to Real Love and Intimacy. Some other genres and authors I enjoy are, fiction, Dean Koontz, Nora Roberts,Mercedes Lackey, and a bunch of others.

Movies: action, adventure, anime, comedy, romantic comedy, and drama.some examples are Dangerous beauty, Summer Lovers, under the Tuscan Sun, You've Got Mail, When Harry Met Sally , The Fugitive,The Secret life of Arrietty, my neighbor Totoro, and several others.

Shows when I watch: Greys Anatomy, Law and Order, NCIS, Private Practice, Rizzoli & Isles, The Big Valley.

Music: I enjoy all kinds of music as long as it has soul. Several varieties of Jazz. Lots of 80s stuff. Anything by Journey. Some other examples of music I enjoy are Duran Duran, The cranberries, U2, Queen, Billy Joel, REO speed wagon. Cold Play, Ben Folds Five, Gotye, Jason Mraz, One Republic, Yani. There is lots more modern stuff I appreciate too, Green Day when September ends, and 21 guns are two of my absolute favorites. I appreciate being introduced to new music as well.

Food wise I am pretty eclectic.

Love, quality time with my family, lots of loving touch from head to toe, yoga, dancing, my books about psychology & philosophy, the company of my good friends, long leisurely hugs and being useful in the world.

Being love in the world, my family, creating absolute abundance, contributing to making the world a better place, joy, philosophy, pleasure , psychology, relationships, responsible hedonism, self growth. What is the next fun and meaningful activity with family, friends, and other loved ones.

Home with my family,out with friends , off at a workshop of some kind, or on a date.

I am enjoying my current exploration of creating joy,happiness, absolute abundance and passion.I am stretching my edges. Lavender is my favorite flavor ice cream.

You are all or some of the following: You're a person who values genuineness, authenticity and transparency. You're someone I can spend time with and be all of myself as much of the time as possible. Someone who enjoys a great conversation over a cup of coffee or Chai. You're someone who is fully present. You can relate to using relationship for personal and spiritual growth. You're interested in co-creating a relationship that is unique and satisfying. You're someone who is looking for a warm caring friendship for fun, new adventures and possibly more. Someone who is Looking for honesty, sincerity, and someone to giggle with.