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25 Oakland, CA Cis Man

Cis Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:23pm
Bisexual, Demisexual, Heteroflexible, Pansexual, Sapiosexual
White, Other
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I don't like going into meeting people in a 'date' context. If you think I sound cool and would like to get together to talk and see if we can be friends/contribute to one another's life... great! If I message you, I want what I just said. Who isn't excited about a new friend that's into some cool shit?

That doesn't mean that it couldn't turn physical if we both decided we want that at some point, but friends first please.... it makes the sex better if you care about someone and want the best for them.

I like the challenge of my version of poly (just saying poly doesn't mean the same thing to everyone) and I feel it is helping me to grow to be the best me I can be.

If you're curious about something, feel free to ask me via a message :D

Oh, and for those that are interested: ENTJ/ENTP (pretty close split). And 2 wing 1.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I make a lot of eye contact.
I have 'angry' eyebrows and silver/gray hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Howabout a list of recently read: The Antidote, Hitch 22, Ayahuasca in my Blood, Altered Carbon, Happiness, Farseer Trilogy (actually not recent, but damn good fantasy). Anything by Richard K Morgan (A land fit for Heroes and Takechi Kovacs novels), Spectrum of Consciousness by Ken Wilber, Consilience and the Unity of Knowledge, The Circle.

Movies: Adrift in Tokyo, Kokuhaku, Gladiator, El Orfanato, The Skin I Live In, Snatch, Sean of the Dead, Day of the Jackal, Last Year at Marienbad, Wes Anderson, Guillermo Del Toro, Miyazaki, Stanley Kubrick, Birdman

Shows: Rick & Morty, Off the Air, Broad City

Music: Amsterdam/Relax playlist and HipHop. e.g.

Food: Thai, Japanese, Chinese, Indian, home cooking, Italian - pretty much everything. I just don't like raw tomatoes,.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ethics - Feminism, classism, capitalism, obliteration of cultures and alternative ways of being human by this monocultstrosity.

Emotional and mental wellbeing - meditation, spectrum of consciousness, self-improvement.

Motorcycles... particularly the KTM 1290 Super Duke R and how badly I have a crush on it.
You should message me if
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Sexual deviancy first:

- You are looking for a unicorn - though we'd have to meet first (yes, I am interested in M/F couples).

- You are a Cis female interested in exploring with my partner and myself. My partner is a beautiful woman nicknamed Sloan at least for this profile.

- You have a motorcycle and want to compare notes/talk about exchanging rides, or you're just curious about getting into it.

- You are extremely conscientious of your emotions and your effects on others and want to meet and become friends with people who like to talk about emotions and challenges in that realm.

- You want to try and write a standup comedy routine about startup related bullshit... seriously.

- You want to try to make and record some rap songs in my apt.

- You are interested in having a weekly tea meeting or a book club.

- You like to dance to hip-hop and want to go out with me to dance.

- You think I'm cute, we have something in common, and you want to see if we can be friends and then see if their is additional chemistry and are happy if we just end up being 'besties' instead... lmao. Or if we decide the other is cool but we don't really need to hang out anymore that's cool too.

- You enjoy acting and would like to rehearse a scene and then go perform it in public without other people knowing it's a scene. (Think a couples' fight scene which we could then do in coffee shops). In fact, if you just want to get into character... someone you're not... and go out, that could be damn fine fun.

If you want to recommend me a book (craving modern noir/sci-fi noir), or a movie, or a show.

I'm marked as bi as I am interested in couple play.

Hah, thanks for reading.