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37 M Exeter, United Kingdom

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Working on Ph.D program
Rather not say
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Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Skip to the end. It's about biscuits.

If you've been on OKC more than 3 days you'll probably appreciate my summary-summary:

Own hair, can punctuate, not married/seeing anyone.

Form an orderly queue. Also, if your TV is bigger than your bookshelf, then we probably won't get on.

Exposition. Russell said that the greatest paradox in life was that the idiots were so full of certainty, the wise so full of doubts. I’d certainly never claim to be wise, but gosh do I miss the certainties. Well, I trained as a pilot, had a pretty invigorating spell in the army, worked in the city for a few years in a job that took me round the world a dozen times; lived in the middle east for a while, went back to school twice, turned down a PhD (and had the discourtesy returned the second time) and am currently trying to work out what the rest of my working life should look like; I *do* know that I will never, ever commute again, though...
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently living in Cornwall (profile says London because, my god, you should see who crawls out from between the cracks if OKC thinks you should meet the locals) but spend a lot of time back in town; I lived there for ten years and miss it terribly, so long as I’m not actually there.

I love the outdoors; I used to run like crazy, sometimes ten marathons in a year, often doubles, triples and even the M de S. Was an official lycra lout, with the shaved legs and everything (read that as you will) and could regularly be found on the FNS and the suicide skate. Skied and snowboarded like a loon until my shoulder parted company from my spine and now ski like someone’s grandma, which did for the surfing somewhat too (still boogie board and open-water swim when it’s warmer); have a surf-kayak which is fun, and a little dinghy I potter about the coast on. Used to race X-class boats in RORC and have packed a spinnaker in a force ten gale without losing either my lunch or my sense of humour.

"what you've done is irrelevant. What matters is what you are going to do". I've been spending a lot of time thinking about this lately.
I’m really good at
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Prevaricating. Case in point...
The first things people usually notice about me
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my eyes and my smile. If it's only my eyes and I am not smiling, take my arm gently and lead me to a park bench and phone the number on my plastic bracelet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Don't own a TV. Broadcast media is dead, frankly, with the glorious exception of the bits of radio 4 (and 3 when thought for the day, women's hour and those terribly worthy phone-ins are on).

Stuff like this maybe, or the Batman soundtrack. If you have to ask 'which Batman' you are dead to me.

If you know why bitrate is important and don't drink coffee with a lid on there might be hope for us
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My barrel. And my cup.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh, and you can stick your fucking cupcakes up your bleached pink arseholes and bring a slice of something on a plate. OOOhhh, it's got four inches of lavender frosting on top and a paper butterfly, and it's only 8 pounds! Fuck off.

And muffins have been pointed out to me (thanks). Grow up muffins. Be a cake, or don't be a cake. Just get a grip on yourselves.

I'll be in the WI baking tent if you need me. Julie Andrews, thanks for asking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dispatching War rocket Ajax, to bring back his body
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I eat sweetcorn from the can. Posh sweetcorn, mind. I'm not an animal
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
You should message me if
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You want to meet someone to spend the rest of your life with. You want to amass a library, build a home, make a garden, host extraordinary parties and enjoy moments of exquisite solitude. You want to travel the world and come home again, raise a family and learn, develop and grow. If you want to start to really live.

Or if you have biscuits.