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54 • Portland, OR • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 10:11am
- 6′ 4″ (1.93m)
- Body type
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
I enjoy hiking and camping, but I also like relaxing and watching movies. Believe it or not I do enjoy shopping and I am very crafty with my hands and a handy man as well. Since I live in downtown Portland, I love walking around town, people watching and finding new place to explore and eat.
I know it's not for everyone to be involved with another person that is in an open relationship due to their ethical or religious beliefs. That’s why, if you have any questions, it’s very important to me that you ask me. I am an open book and I have nothing to hide. I will be very up front and honest with you. If you would feel more comfortable meeting my wife and talking to her, to get a better perspective on whether you can handle this or not, that’s okay too. My wife knows all, as there are no secrets between us.
I understand most of you are looking for a monogamous relationship or a soul mate. If you do get a chance to be with me and when you find him, I will be the first to wish you well on your new adventure with that special person. There is no drama in my life with what I do, so I like to keep it that way. I am very selective in the women I choose to associate with, so I like to meet right away to first see, if there is truly a physical attraction and secondly, to see if there is chemistry between us. I'm looking for friends and “Friend with Benefits” and not for just a booty call.
Having play time in the bedroom is always fun, but so is doing other things outside the bedroom. So, if I’ve sparked your curiosity, you think that I would be a good fit into your life and you’d like to find out more, message me. I wish you all good luck in your search and I hope all of you find what you're looking for.
I'm a great cook and very good at keeping things clean and tidy.
My SO AND OSO
My Good Health
A nice place to live
Food on the table
Friends and Family
Hot sexy women
A good bed
Condoms- Got to have protection!!! LOL
How to make women go crazy!!
How much longer can I do this!!
• If I haven't freaked you out with my approach and lifestyle!!
• If you can say yes to to the question, If I were single, would you then go out with me? Think outside the box!
• You're looking for a friend with benefits and no strings attached.
• You're looking for an adventure.
• You’re looking to have some fantasies fulfilled.
• You're just plain horny and need some really good sex!!
• You have any questions on how I can do this and how it all works.
If you do any kind of drugs, have to drink excessively to get your nerve up or you have heavy drama in your life, please DON'T bother to contact me.
• If I see you look a couple of times at my profile and I'm interested in you, I will send an e-mail. I don't chase, so either you tell me you're interested or not. If you are interested I prefer we meet to see if there is compatibility. I don't want to play the e-mail, texting game. So please be respectful of my approch, I'm straight forward, no games, I don't have time for it. Thanks!!!
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