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PDXPhoenix

53 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:19am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm married and in an open relationship. See www.sexyredrose.com that's my wife. I'm not looking to replace what I have. I'm very happy with my wife and marriage. I have a great sex life. But, after 30 years you can't duplicate new. I came to Okay Cupid to enhance what I have.  I'm a very active guy who works out regularly, plays baseball, basketball, and soccer.
I enjoy hiking and camping, but I also like relaxing and watching movies. Believe it or not I do enjoy shopping and I am very crafty with my hands and a handy man as well. Since I live in downtown Portland, I love walking around town and checking out the nightlife scene.
 
I know it's not for everyone to be involved with another person that is in an open relationship due to their ethical or religious beliefs. That’s why, if you have any questions, it’s very important to me that you ask me. I am an open book and I have nothing to hide. I will be very up front and honest with you. If you would feel more comfortable meeting my wife and talking to her, to get a better perspective on whether you can handle this or not, that’s okay too. My wife knows all, as there are no secrets between us.
I understand most of you are looking for a monogamous relationship or a soul mate. If you do get a chance to be with me and when you find him, I will be the first to wish you well on your new adventure with that special person. There is no drama in my life with what I do, so I like to keep it that way. I am very selective in the women I choose to associate with, so I like to meet right away to first see, if there is truly a physical attraction and secondly, to see if there is chemistry between us. I'm looking for a “Friend with Benefits” and not for just a booty call.
Having play time in the bedroom is always fun, but so is doing other things outside the bedroom. So, if I’ve sparked your curiosity, you think that I would be a good fit into your life and you’d like to find out more, message me. I wish you all good luck in your search and I hope all of you find what you're looking for.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Having fun while I can!!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking care of a woman's sexual needs and making her feel good about herself and what she is doing. May as well be blunt about it!!!!
I'm a great cook and very good at keeping things clean and tidy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a nice head of hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm very eclectic, so my range is pretty broad on what I like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Personally:
My SO AND OSO
My Kids
My Good Health
A nice place to live
Food on the table
Friends and Family
Sexually:
Hot sexy women
Good Sex
Lube
Toys
A good bed
Condoms- Got to have protection!!! LOL
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to keep myself staying young and fit.
How to make women go crazy!!
How much longer can I do this!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my OSO!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a Dom. I enjoy exploring a woman's body, finding out what pleases her, what turns her on. Whether it's slow and sensual, fast and hard, dominant and aggressive, or something a little mellower, I flex my style to match the woman I'm with and her mood at the time. I have great stamina and can go for hours and hours. I'm straight but comfortable in an MFM scenario. I know more sex!!! I do like it, plus a lot of other things!!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
• If I haven't scared you off already!!
• If I haven't freaked you out with my approach and lifestyle!!
• If you can say yes to to the question, If I were single, would you then go out with me? Think outside the box!
• You're looking for a friend with benefits and no strings attached.
• You're looking for an adventure.
• You’re looking to have some fantasies fulfilled.
• You're just plain horny and need some really good sex!!
• You have any questions on how I can do this and how it all works.
If you do any kind of drugs, have to drink excessively to get your nerve up or you have heavy drama in your life, please DON'T bother to contact me.
• If I see you look a couple of times at my profile and I'm interested in you, I will send an e-mail. I don't chase, so either you tell me you're interested or not. If you are interested I prefer we meet to see if there is compatibility. I don't want to play the e-mail, texting game. So please be respectful of my approch, I'm straight forward, no games, I don't have time for it. Thanks!!!