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50 Philadelphia, PA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37-53
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:12am
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'd really like to be with someone. A man. That's why I'm on this website. That said, I have a job, a home, friends and a whole life that nudge their way between you and me. Hopefully, this website will help clear the path for our meeting.

I like to play tennis. I like to travel, a couple of nicer trips each year, and a handful of "getaway" long weekends. It would be nice to share both of these with someone. I also like to work on house projects and in the garden, which you don't necessarily have to like...I have no issues having personal interests that only I like and hope you'll have some of your own. We still each need to be our own person, even in a relationship.

I guess I'm just a normal guy. I promise I'm fun and quirky and passionate enough to keep your interest but I'm also kind and stable and honest enough to make you feel secure in our relationship.

I tend to be attracted to guys with dark hair and eyes who are educated and ethnically different from me. Ultimately, similarities are important though.

I have a real fondness for Philadelphia, because I am from here and it is the second largest East Coast city (which makes it a lot of fun), but it's always been on the bucket list to live someplace else.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Like everyone on here, I spend a good part of my day working. As above, I play tennis, at least a couple times a week. Other than that, just trying to be thankful for what I have and figure the rest out. I truly enjoy life's randomness and spontaneity. What I am not doing is hanging out in gay clubs and getting drunk or trolling online for hookups. If you are, do both of us a favor and move to the next profile.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping up with friends. I have friends in many cities other than the one in which I happen to live. Keeping up is a commitment and a pleasure.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am told my smile/lips, so let's just go with that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Death and Life of Great American Cities
Where the Wild Things Are (yes, seriously...don't make me have to tame you with a magic trick)
Any music I liked enough to remember the lyrics so I can sing them while walking around in a towel after a shower
Food, hmmm, I like Indian, Italian, Mexican... Heck, I'll try most anything. Just keep lima beans away from me...bleck.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a warm, safe place to sleep
food in my belly
kindness from others
the outdoors
someone to love who loves me back
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why I was put on this planet, what I can do or say in each day to leave something in a better state than how I encountered it, when I'll meet the love of my life and if he and I will be open enough and brave enough to let it work
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Leaving work late, catching dinner out...maybe a last minute catch up with some friends. Winding down from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm laughing at all of the guys on here who think they are pretty enough to shave ridiculous numbers, or any numbers for that matter, of years off of their real ages...and the fact that they think this helps anything. If you are one of them please don't contact me, even if I contacted you first.
You should message me if
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You have a good heart and a clear conscience, are ultimately looking for one man to take the rest of the ride with, and have something to talk about other than your gym routine, your personal hygiene products and shopping. Points if you are from or interested in other cultures or speak other languages.